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Why does he pin my legs down to the bed, during sex?

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Question - (31 July 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hello

Just a quick question really so thatnks for reading

Ive just started sleeping with a new guy everything is going good and sex life is fab,

but my one question is during sex he holds my leg down like he pining it to the bed when hes inside me, it doesnt bother me when he does this, just have never had any of the guys i have slept with before do this to me

so i was begining to think im not doing it for him in the bedroom area

does anyone else do this ??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011):

Its most likely his way of feeling dominant, and by letting him do this then you are def doing it for him in the bedroom. Every person has sex in different ways and this is clearly what he likes. I wouldnt be upset or worried over it, I would enjoy it when it comes :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2011):

why ask us? This is not a confronting question or a question with big repercussions.. so just ask him why he likes to do it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2011):

When he pins your legs down, I think ot makes it nice and tight for him.

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A male reader, Ronnie70 United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2011):

Ronnie70 agony auntExactly how does he pin your leg down? Just the one leg?

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A female reader, person12345 United States + , writes (31 July 2011):

person12345 agony auntWhy would that mean you're not good in bed? It sounds a little creepy to me, like he needs to feel like he's restraining you to get off. Why not try pointing it out to him next time he does it to see what he says?

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A male reader, hopelessdistance United States +, writes (31 July 2011):

It's not that you're not "doing it for him" it's most likely a dominance thing.

You could just simply ask him if he likes to be dominant, and if he does, then you might enjoy becoming more submissive.

That or it could just be his favorite position.

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