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writes:Ok well here is another updateFor those of you that have no idea what is going on here is the link so you can read what's going onhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-developed-feelings-for-a-friend-update.htmlOk well it has been 9 days since I told My friend who I have feelings for that I am Bipolar and he is acting different with me now.....He does not talk to me...I send him text messages and he does not reply...I send him comments on his myspace and he does not reply as well the lat text he sent me was on the 2nd of Oct 2007...He said that he was not mad at me that he has just been busy...that's all....I told him I never asked you if you were mad at me...... and He said that he was just sayin........Why is he acting this way? I have not told him anything that would make him angry....I have not told him the feelings I have for him and I will not tell him. He has a girlfriend and she is away in the U,K for 1 whole year....even so I support him and tell him to wait for her that she is worth it? My being bipolar is not my fault and it is not something I chose to have....If I could find a way to get rid of my bipolarness I would, but there is no cure for it....that is no reason to stop being friends with someone....We went all summer talking to each other everyday to Now nothing....No explanation what so ever. He went from teasing me and playing mind games to nothing.....What should I do? I can not find the courage to call him and ask him what's up....Why do you think he has completely shined me off and no longer wants to talk to me?
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reader, Vivie  +, writes (15 December 2007):
I can not honestly say why, but all i know is that i can retlate to whay you are saying. I am going through something very similar. It's heartbreaking and making me pysically sick, can't eat or sleep properly. Why do we let our health suffer over this tye of situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): I can not honestly say why, but all i know is that i can retlate to whay you are saying. I am going through something very similar. It's heartbreaking and making me pysically sick, can't eat or sleep properly.
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reader, SalemsWhispers +, writes (15 November 2007):
SalemsWhispers is verified as being by the original poster of the question here's another update..I finally realized that I had a crush on my EX friend...I have not talked to him on the phone for about a month Now...I have come to realize that he is a piece of crap & that he is not really my friend....I do not need to be on medication because I am Bipolar...what is it with people that think that Medicine can fix everything? If medicine was the answer to everything there would not be obesity, mental illnesses, cancer, aids, Alzheimer's ect... you get what I mean...I was on Medication for my bipolar from age 13-19 & all it did was slow me down, make me incapable of living a regular life, made me depressed...all I did was sleep....finally I said screw my meds & my doctors & now I have my license & I am working & having a normal healthy social life not to mention that I am happy & I rarely get depressed so don't tell me that I should go back on meds OK......Now as far as he goes...I have also come to realize that I can not imagine myself with him...He is so opposite of me & we would just pump heads...we are so incompatible it's ridiculous....plus pardon my French....He is a fucken asshole & it's his loss...I am so glad that I was finally able to get over his worthless ass
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): Hi There
My name is David i'm 45 and live in the UK. I've been bi polar for 5 years. A similar thing happened to me when I developed the illness. It something you can't really shake off, people consider you broken and a possible bunny boiler, or mad axe man. They have clearly watched too many movies.
I was in a relationship which eventually broke up because nothing I said was taken seriously. Obviously this made me angry, not physically but on occassion I would raise my voice, only to be treated as if I was a madman capable of mass murder or something. It culminated in my partner going on holiday and me not being allowed to look after my own child, because she was taken to her grandmothers.
There is not a lot you can do about it other than break the cycle by breaking contact with the person you love. Of course this is easier said than done because your thoughts are like a parrot on your shoulder. You said he played mind games, is this health for you? is it love or are you confusing it for love.
Get busy doing other things and forget about him.
Good Luck D
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (7 October 2007):
Being bipolar can be treated with drugs and therapy. For all intents and purposes it can be cured (held in check). Telling some guys who don't know you well may freak them out. Get treatment and find a bf who doesn't have a gf.
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