A
female
age
36-40,
*randirae
writes:Hey everyone, long story short 18 months ago I met my fiance Rob, he was married at the time but filed for divorce shortly after our meeting. I am 24 and he is 34. Our wedding is set for Dec 26/09. Even though we are just months away form our wedding date he keeps asking me to have a baby, literally now. Since the first of July it has been a daily conversation with him. Ever morning at breakfast he asked me to go off my birth control pills and we have the same conversation before bed. He has even brought it up DURING sex. I have spent countless hours explaining to him that I really want to wait, espically considering our wedding is just months away. We talked about when we would have kids in the past and we both agreed we would wait for a year after we are married, why did he change his mindÉ and why just out of the blue like this. And how can I get him to see my point in waiting to at least the wedding is over. Thanks for reading.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (8 September 2009):
 You can be rest assured that he has some ulterior motives. Ask him why this is so important to him. If he keeps avoiding the issue, tell him you are not ready and especially since he is refusing to be honest with you.
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