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writes:Dear Aunts, I am sorry for the long post but it gets easier... I promise..Me and a guy were good friends for a year. Well, he became my friend by just "Randomly" thinking up and adding my number to his whatsapp list. He texted me and stated who he was and the rest is history. Soon afterwards, he started getting inappropriate with his conversations. Always bringing up sex. Then one day he cussed me out as if he thought he owned me. Told me I was gone for 2 weeks and I was a horrible friend. Most sounded like a put on. I cussed him back, blocked him then he got a new number and texted me but I blocked that number also. A year past and I was sick of just having a box full of blocked obnoxious people so I started unblocking and asking them who they were again. I unblocked his number but saw him in town a week previous and he greeted me in an positive and enthusiastic way. So when I unblocked him and stated my name he was like "block and delete me, thanks you. I dont want to be friends with you anymore" I explained that I blocked him for a reason but he was like " I dont need to know all of that" almost pissed like and then I said"Goodbye" and deleted , not blocked him.so my question is , if he doesn't want to be my friend why does he greet me soo BIG in the streets?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@aunthonesty yes he knows its my phone. We arent talking anymore. I have placed it all behind me. Thanks to all for your inputs.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 October 2016):
 He sounds like a strange invividual. My guess is that he was having a bit of fun texting girls about sex. Does he know that it is your phone number or could he think he has someone else's phone number? Either way sweetie he does not sound like he wants to be a friend, and I honestly think you would be much better off without him in your life. I can't see him every being a good friend.
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (22 October 2016):
 No, the question is why would you add and befriend someone who thought up your number and added you? And why would you continue to speak to or think about some weirdo who behaved the way he did?
I think you should change your phone number entirely and stop accepting random invitations. Be more discerning when selecting friends and then you won't have all these blocked numbers on your phone.
Problem solved.
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reader, N91 +, writes (22 October 2016):
 I wouldn't even concern myself with finding out the answer, what an odd individual he sounds. Just don't add him back and forget about it.
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