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Why do woman hook up with married men?

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Question - (1 August 2012) 10 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2012)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My question is simple, Why do women hook up with a married man? I would like to hear from those who had a relationship with a married man, why did you do it? Love? Sex? Adventure?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012):

Because it is really easy to entice a married man that has a dead sex life with his wife. Guys are eager to sleep with someone that can fulfill their sexual needs. It is exciting and usually a challange to see if a guy will take that leap and sleep with you.

A married man will usually stay with their wife and have a little piece on the side because he has the best of both worlds. The female ends up hurt and wanting more out of the relationship usually. It's really a dead end.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (2 August 2012):

DoubleM agony auntOnce had a co-worker friend - nothing sexual but close - who maintained a relationship with a married man for years. I was appalled. It eventually ended, but I once asked why she did that. She responded that it was sex without commitment, but he also paid her rent. In that case, it was prostitution.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (2 August 2012):

Honeypie agony auntBecause they can. And because "dating" a married man is "easier" then dating one who doesn't have a wife at home, to wash his dirty sock, fold his laundry, cook him dinners, clean the house, take care of the kids..........

They lack morals. Same as the married men they cheat with.

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A female reader, oldbag United Kingdom + , writes (1 August 2012):

oldbag agony aunt

Erm

Because they can.. it takes 2 to Tango

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (1 August 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntOne of my friends was desperate for male attention. Why do married men look outside their marriage for hookups? Don't they have free will too?

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (1 August 2012):

Danielepew agony auntI suppose there are many reasons.

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A male reader, Cerberus Ireland + , writes (1 August 2012):

Cerberus agony auntBecause they're selfish idiots and slaves to their emotions. The same as guys who do it really.

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A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (1 August 2012):

I think part of the reason is some women find it more exciting to take something another woman has, like she is "winning," or something to that effect.

In the end though, it comes down to what was said below - "bad judgement."

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (1 August 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntIN two words: "bad judgement".

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A female reader, YouWish United States + , writes (1 August 2012):

YouWish agony auntOne of my closest friends hooked up with a married man (against my very strong objections and pleading) because she bought into his story that leaving his wife would cause her health and mental problems. They had worked together until he revealed a deep attraction toward her. She hadn't even thought about being with him, but his attentions lavished on her were intoxicating, and she eventually developed feelings for him.

It wasn't long before her demands for a more substantial relationship caused him to flake out on her, not to mention when his wife became suspicious of them, he told her that he could never be attracted to someone such as my friend. That was a real eye opener for her.

She finally got weary of his getting sex with no strings attached. He still tries to seduce her though. You have no idea how much I wanted to call his wife and tell her what was going on. I very nearly ended my friendship with her, but figured patience was the best course of action.

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