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anonymous
writes:I´m very tired of female friends that stop talking to me from one moment to the next. it´s very rude and inconsiderate. It keeps happening to me. I just don´t understand. I´m very sure that it wasn´t from saying or doing anything that could possibly be offensive. One day everything´s fine, the next it seems like I killed their cat or something. I wonder whether is has to do with their period but it goes on for a very long time. I want to know if anyone can explain this.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 Mate,
saying it may be their time of the month gives a little clue where your head is at and how much you understand women - very little by the sounds of it.
I would put my money on it that it is something you are saying to them and you are totally oblivious to it.
But as long as you are prepared to rectify the situation and you have respect for them I'm sure you can get some clues to modify your behaviour.
So as EmilyA says, just ask them! One will tell you if you ask her nicely.
good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): I totally agree with "Emilyanswers", they only way you will know and find out, is by asking them nicely if you did say or do something to offend them.
Good luck!
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reader, no_issues  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 In porn, such behavior is usually an immediate prelude to spontaneous sex on top of whatever furniture or piece of equipment is most conveniently available. In fact, such encounters may involve some or all of the females in question at the same time, which one imagines makes it all much more efficient.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 July 2008):
Why don't you ask them?
The fact you are a bit clueless about their time of the month says to me that you might not understand women very well and may have offended them without realising it.
There is nothing wrong with picking up the phone and asking "Have I done something to upset you? I'm sorry if I did, I didn't mean to."
Good Luck!! xx
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