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writes:Why do guys enjoy cumming on their partners body? Wouldn't it feel better for them to just leave it inside? My boyfriend almost always pulls out when we have sex and I end up with his sperm on my stomach and boobs. I don't hate it or anything, I mean he is my boyfriend so it's ok, but I'm not sure I understand why they feel that is so sexy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2016): As a guy I would say that pulling out at the last second is the most unnatural thing to do..almost impossible for me.
Of course everyone is different but I think too many people sadly get their sex education from the porn industry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2016): Don't make too much out of it because it's just a "guy" thing. We're very visual and are turned on by certain acts, body parts, etc.
A couple of my ex girlfriends allowed me to ejaculate on their face and it was a major turn on for me and for them as well, especially knowing that it turned me on. At the same time, if your partner isn't into it than it's off limits - you can't force someone to perform a sexual act that they don't approve of.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (17 April 2016):
 If he's getting extra enjoyment out of coming *on* you (i.e. he's told you he finds it sexy), it's probably something watching porn has conditioned him to like.
If it's something he just does, it's probably more out of convenience. Much easier and quicker to wash semen off skin than to do a load of laundry - and if you two have sex anywhere other than a bed, doing laundry to clean the mess up may not even be a possibility :)
On a somewhat related note, if he's coming ON you he must not be wearing a condom. The pull-out method isn't a very effective means of contraception, so if he's doing this to avoid pregnancy, make sure you're using a backup method as well.
Hope this helps. Best wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2016): I like all four reasons listed. My bf wants to cum IN me, not ON me but we don't want to get pregnant. I react badly to ALL bc meds and also metals. He's missing a left nut and he's 55 but the risk is still there. I would ask your boyfriend HIS reasons and give him your feelings. Would lying down a trowel to avoid the wet spot be a fair compromise?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (17 April 2016):
 1. he is trying to avoid making a "wet-spot" on the bed.
2. he has watched to much porn.
3. it's territorial thing - "she is mine" like a dog pissing on lampposts to mark his territory...
4. he is trying to avoid coming inside you and avoid a pregnancy.
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reader, Garbo +, writes (17 April 2016):
 If he is pulling out before ejaculating, then he is doing it as a preventive measure not to get you pregnant. Dumping it on the bed stains it. So it's just practical to drop it off on your body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2016): If say it's more the porn factor playing in. But all people like different things. He probably thinks it looks hot, again probably the porn factor.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 April 2016):
 not all men like this, just some. why do people like different things... oh jeeezzz.... well it feels good to them i guess.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (17 April 2016):
 I'm no man but I think they feel like it is sexual power over a woman. Or that they are some pornstar calibre
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reader, wrathykins  +, writes (17 April 2016):
 He's probably seen it happen in porn and thought it was really hot.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (17 April 2016):
 It's not (so hot). Your boyfriend is an idiot....
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