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41-50,
anonymous
writes:The man I'm with moved here to care for his mother imet him on line date site we been together almost two years dated a year now live together but as we dated I found out him and his ex wife was swinger..she said what broken them up because he cheated...at times he and I talked about it to understand why and what he got out of it ...down deep in feel he's still doing it by some of the things he douse...I have seen texts between them and him so I question him as tonight...what do I do ?? I don't believe in this is feel if you truly love someone it should not be ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2015): Men dont need to be swingers..your paricular fella does.He wants you as a trade in partner so that you have random sex with the guy who pulls your keys from a hat.Its all about entitlement.With you there he can have random sex with any woman and he is hoping you are gullible enough to go along with it.Theres probably also mney in it tho where im not sure.Could be hidden cameras.Why would you want to be with this creep who has nothing to offer but detached emotionless sex with strangers?.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 October 2015):
 not all men feel this way.
and not all men feel this way with all women.
My ex and I were swingers. he cheated (we define cheating as anything you can't won't or don't tell your partner)
my current husband and I do not swing. He does not want to.
It's not all men it's just this particular man.
IF you don't agree with him then the relationship will not work.
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