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writes:i have fallen for another guy, now im no prude, ive been out for 15 years, its just my last two boyfriends were secretly into cottaging and cruising and they kept it secret from me, it broke my heart, now 8 years later, over four years i think me and my best mate are falling for each other, but i now have been hearing that hes following guys into toilets in mixed gay venues where we go while my attention is diverted or im not there. i find this a complete embrrasment, he even followed me when out of it once and was trying to cruise me. ok, i no it happens, but y me all the time? i really like this guy, and if hed just knock this on head and able to ask em for what he wants and not show me up in public id even consider being with him, even if only out of curiosity but y always me? whatever happened to good old fashioned flirting and banter? and after so long finding out? hes denied it of course but i no for sure, its not just gossip and what shocks me more hes well good looking and only 26, i thought this was just an old guys thing, and what with places to go and technollogy these days theres no need for it surely. id have even more respect for him if he went to a specialist club where this is acceptable, not sum mixed gay boozer welcome for all. it would seem hell turn anywhere remotley gay to go out into a toilet cruising ground.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (11 April 2007):
 Are YOU taking advantage of the "technology" to meet the kinds of people you'd like to be with? Sure, a lot of them are just looking for something quick, but if they're on there chances are they are not just cruising, they are serious about wanting to put at least some time and effort into their liaisons.
For some reason you seem to have a talent for getting mixed up with guys who go on the cheap. This says that maybe you are hanging with the wrong crowd. Try some different approach (like that on-line thing) and see if it works better for you. After all, it's not likely to work any worse, is it?
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