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16-17,
anonymous
writes:I can't get over my first ever boyfriend. We werent really as close as both of us would have liked to be but I thought of him as sweet . I was never involved with a guy before and it just felt like he opened this whole new way to feel for me you know? It sounds sappy yet somehow true. I broke up with him after a five month relationship. He would always always cheat on me and keep things to himself. I don't regret the break up ..but I do admit I miss him a lot. My dreams and thoughts are constantly about him and as much as I tell myself I don't miss him... I really do. Yet I dunno why. My friends are really sick of hearing him come up in our conversations. Can somebody please tell me why this is? I don't even know if he thinks about me in return.. Though he does try and keep contact =\ this isn't giving me peace. At all. I'm sorry this is so long
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 well him keep being in contact doesnt help i always think a clean break is best helps the healing process.. we never fully forget our first love its a fact of life. even if they were the worst partner we still think of them and think omg he was my first love and i really did care for him. with time it will be alright but dont deny your heart the healing time, sometime we do anything for love but their is only so much we can take..im glad you dont regret it, but you need to put your focus and attention on something else than your ex or you will be in a vicious circle hence why you talk about it because its always on your mind..why? its over and done with yes he was your first love but he also was a cheater..much brighter things to be thinking about college new boys any hobbies you have not your ex.. hope that helps aphexy xx
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