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Why do I love him so much?

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Question - (5 November 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I lost my virginity to him and we were "together" for several months but didnt go out cause he said that he needed to focus on school. I told him I couldn't do it anymore, which is when he asked me to be his girlfriend. We went out for a week before he told me that he didn't want a girlfriend right now and only needed to concentrate on school. He said he still wanted to be friends and that he didnt want to lose me and he would still text me even if i didnt want to talk to him. He did text me once last week and asked how I was. Recently, I saw pictures on facebook of him drunk at parties and I feel absolutely horrible!! I go to parties and drink too but usually end up crying because I miss him so much. Why do I love him?? Its been over a month and I feel as if it happened yesterday, will I EVER get over him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008):

Yes, he is your first. 20 years on I've still got a picture of him somewhere. Still think of him, wonder what he is up to now, remember losing my virginity blah blah. He is part of your memory and life now so hopefully in a nember of years you can accept it and secretly smile about it like I do. xxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008):

im in the same situation i lost my virginity to this lad, hes in the army i still do have feelings for him i felt like i was dreaming because we was seeing each other for a couple of months,but he said he didnt want a girlfriend and he wanted to concentrate on the army so me and him split i havent been seeing anyone since im begining to get over him but you will always have feelings for him because he was your first.just dont rush into anything, i even loved him when he tret me like an idiot.hope it helps noing that your not the only one lol.good luck im here if you wana chat thanks emma xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008):

why u love him is he was ur first and that makes it hard for to stop loveing him but the more u think of him the more u will miss him....and stop drinking I been there befor and its not something good all u do is cry and cry and miss that guy more so stop move on save ur self lot of pain it will be hard but u could don't let this guy get u down okey u be the winer and let him be the loser that he don't have u in his life....xox

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (5 November 2008):

You'll get over him if you stop thinking about him all the time.

Stop drinking, that will only make things worse.

Give yourself a kick up the bum and get on with your life.

Some guys are liars and idiots. Accept that and move on.

Good Luck!! xx

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