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*eartbroken1991
writes:We dated a couple of months I didn't let him hit until I was ready ta have sex with him..days went on we did the do. As the months n weeks went on we were cool. Until I found out that was four weeks pregnant. He's 22 I'm 18 I'm a senior n highschool. When I told him he had a fit " I'm not ready for no kids yet" "your not either" that understandable I really wasn't but it was his first child I didn't wanna get a abortion but it really hit me hard..so I just got the abortion when I was 6 weeks.Then after that. That's when everything went down hill he got really distant from me started talkin ta his ex girlfriend again she's older the me she's 21. But anyways he went ta georgia ta see her n told me that wat he told me from the gate what's gonna happen. But I told him that I'm not sharin no d*ck wit no bitch. Like why freak her when u have a whole gurl. He gave me bullshit..Then when I finally text him he had an attitude Like what u want I told him how I felt like how he got distant around me after the abortion. He was like 'well what happen between us was n the past we don't have no future so I think its best for us to part ways' that was like a slap in my face..Now my question is why do I still have feelings for him and why I feel like a fool? Plz answer
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reader, heartbroken1991 +, writes (4 December 2009):
heartbroken1991 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to think all of yaw for helpin me out thank you very much I appreciate it alot
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (4 December 2009):
 I am so sorry. That is so aweful. I'm sorry that you had to go through this tough experience. I'm sure you are a stronger person for what you went through. You have feelings for him because you spent so much time and engery on him. You were intimite with him. He hurt you badly so you are very upset. This thinking about him, which we all do makes you want to contact him. I'm sure you wish it ended differently. You obviously deserve better. Don't go back to him. Good luck with everything.
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reader, dianamd  +, writes (4 December 2009):
he was not a right guy for u ..he was searching a reasons to leave you and hang around with others...you would have never selpt wth him...he is an arrogant guy and for him i think girls are jst sex toys to enjoy and then dump....control ur feelings and move on ...don't stay with ur past .
Don't feel like a fool ....its a life and u deserve much better hence anything happend ll happen for a reason ...
he came into your life and taught u lesson how to distinguish between true love and fake love .so he acted in your life to make u learn what fake love is .
Now u came to know ..so beware in ur future and never even come into such guys trap again ..
okay concenterate on ur studies and be loyal to urself the world ll loyal to u .
we must respect our body and our soul then only we can gain self esteem and dont ever let us feel down for such freaks ....
world is filled up with such freaks so don't bother there arrogant behaviours .
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reader, Shan25 +, writes (4 December 2009):
Wow thats sad but sounded like he want out when he found out you was pregnant and to make sure he does not have any tries to you he convince you to have a abortion. please do not think for one second that he did not plan everything out. most man after something tragic happens in a relationship and they know they don't want you like that they then come up with a plan its a how to leave her without her really knowing plan. the reason for his actions after you text him was like go way was because he been stop caring for you. now its up to you to see how strong you are. nobody can tell you how to feel towards him because your heart controls that. learn from him and realise the type of person he really is so when you meet your next guy and want be like your last guy
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