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writes:I'm 27 and I've been sexually active for the last 10 years but I can't explain this. Sex hurts on and off for me. This recent guy I've been seeing it hurts like a knife is going through my vagina sometimes before he even full enters me and other times he's all the way in and thrusting and no pain at all. I can't explain it because we have the same amount of foreplay and the same routine every time and I'm turned on. I just don't get why it would hurt that bad even when I'm turned on wanting him to enter and when he claims he's not even fully in? We have tried using lubricant but that just makes the pain 10x worse!! And I have a clean history/tested so no chance of anything medically related. His penis is average size and he's really good at foreplay so what's with the sharp intense pain when he's barely in? There's also a feeling of urgent urination I get now that I did not have before but I've learned to use the bathroom before sex which is also a hassle. Please please help of you can think of any tips or suggestions!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (7 November 2013):
 I'd agree with Tisha-1 mostly!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 November 2013):
 Maybe a UTI? Time to go have a very forthcoming chat with the gynecologist, I'm afraid. No one here will be able to provide you the medical advice you need, you need to be examined by a qualified medical practitioner, no way around it. Good luck!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 November 2013):
 By the symptoms you describe, it could be a vulvo-vaginitis. It's an inflammation caused either by a bacterial / fungal infection, ( not necessarily sexually transmitted ) or in lack of infection, simply by something that has altered the right PH in your vagina and made your mucoses inflammed ( poor hygiene OR washing too frequently with too strong soaps, use of too tight / synthetic underwear, wrong diet, and many other possible causes ). The name sounds bad , but it is actually quite common ( 80% of women will have it sooner or later ) and easily treatable.
Just for the record, though, sharp pain , although more consistent than yours , during sex is a symptom also associated with more serious diseases ,like Pelvic Inflammatory Disease and endometriosis.
Whatever it is - you need to see a doctor, you can't just sit on it ! ( literally and metaphorically :)) asking for "tips ". The tip is, see your gyno, he'll know what to do .
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 November 2013):
 Pain like that SCREAMS Endometriosis to me.
Please see a gyn for this. It's not normal and you should be mentioning it at your well-woman visits.
At 27 and sexually active you should have a minimum of 9 years of GYN yearly checkups under your belt. IF you do not then you must find a GYN right away.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (7 November 2013):
 Have you been to a gynecologist? Doctor for a check up? That would be MY first step.
Could be your uterus has a sharp "bend" in it where it meets the vagina -so even if he isn't in far he is "banging" up against the uterus, which hurts like a bugger.
Have you tried more then one position and which one hurt? All of them or just him on top?
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