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Why do I eventually lose interest in men I am too shy to approach?

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Question - (7 May 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2015)
A female Ireland age 41-50, *ineire writes:

I have this strange repetitive pattern and I'm trying to make sense of it..

Basically, I tend to start fancying a man, am too shy to approach them but i think about them for ages… then after a time the desire goes away..

Can you explain a rational for this repetitive behaviour?

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A female reader, aineire Ireland +, writes (9 May 2015):

aineire is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you

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A female reader, aineire Ireland +, writes (9 May 2015):

aineire is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks you for your response… i did a lot of soul searching the last few hours and believe ive uncovered that I have a fear of receiving love, which has basically held me back for years having a relationship with men that i did fancy and were interested in me but the fear of receiving love stopped me..

DO you think this makes sense?

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (8 May 2015):

BrownWolf agony aunt

Simple...If you are shy too talk to someone, you will lose interest...why?? Because you have convinced yourself that you can never have them. So, why hold on to something you cannot have? In your mind anyway.

I bet you could have them...but first you have to say "Hi" :)

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