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writes:Im almost 15, and i have ton of guys saying they love me and wanna date me.But i don't get it everytime i trust and let someone in, they try to have sex with me and crap. and i don't like that.So why do guys wanna have sex so much? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Sensexual  +, writes (24 July 2009):
well answering the question of why do guys want to have sex so much is not really worth answering here. since you are young talent woman knowng what life has for you,and what you wanna achieve,just pay lot of attention to guys who insinst to have love for you,not every "guy" have what we call love,but they normaly wanna get it you know:wat metters the most to them is to count on scores:so just wait for the ryt guy,who will understand what love is:)
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reader, LazyGuy  + ♥, writes (12 July 2009):
 Actually, if you check this board you will find that it is a common complaint by woman who want more sex then their bf supplies.
My theory is that men WANT simple sex constantly but only NEED a small amount of it. Think of it like a very unsuccesful hunter who spends all day hunting yet might only bring one kill home in a year.
Remember all the boys you talked to WANTED to have sex. But did they get it? I presume not.
If you wanted to have sex... well you know get plenty of guys willing to take you up on that. But most women don't just want sex, for them sex is part of love. They want to have a connection with their partner. Once this connection exists they want sex and as plenty of posts on this forum tells us, sometimes more then the guy.
Guys want sex, girls want relationships. The guys you rejected could just as well ask "why do girls want love so much".
Most of the guys will ask for sex on the basis that if you don't try your luck you will never get lucky.
Your choice how you want to react to this. Just remember that guys of any age will be happy to say almost anything to get into your pants. Just stand your ground until you find someone who you want to get into your pants. Don't let guys pressure you into something you don't want to do and you will deal fine with all the horny guys in the world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Its not that hard of a question, girls are made to FEEL love and guys are made to HAVE love, but sometimes it's not even LUV its just the moment and guys get really horny.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): hey im 15 too. same situation. guys are horny. period. plus at this age its like a contest between friends to see who can "score" the most. its dumb. dont fall for their tricks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Well, first, it's possible you're somehow physically 'hot', and most men will be physically attracted to girls with sexy bodies.
Then, it might be your behavior that attracts a certain type of men, or the way you dress...
But ultimately, men and sex cannot be dissociated. There's a reason why 99% of porn catters to male audiences and not female.
Now...since you're 15, you should be careful who your boyfriends are, although you probably look older, because some men might only want to use you.
Make sure it's about feelings first, rather than physical attraction. Depends on what you're looking for.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (12 July 2009):
well answering the question of why do guys want to have sex so much is not really worth answering here. You seem smart enough to know that not every guy who tells you they love you really means it. Guys of all ages will try to tell a girl whatever they want to hear to have sex with them. My advise? Pay attention to the guy who gives you unconditional attention. The guy who just seems to enjoy being around you. All the guys trying to make out with you and pull on you and "get in your pants" tell them to take a hike. That goes for ALL the guys even if there is one that you are attracted to. Attractive people are a dime a dozen and there is far more quality to be found in the way a guy treats you than just simply how he looks. Again you seem like a smart girl so I don't see any reason to believe that you will as well make a smart decision regarding any boy, guy, or man that comes into yourlife
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reader, Tryx +, writes (12 July 2009):
 Someone has to want to have sex or the human race will die out!
But still, you are young and guys should not be so forward with you, If you want them to stop, tell it to them straight up.
But a simple answer to your question would be, "Genetic instinct to procreate".
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