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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (10 October 2012):
 Why are you obsessing over whether he accepts you on FB? It means absolutely nothing in the realworld. Obviously because he talks with you and works with you...why does he need to click a button on the internet to prove he knows and likes you?
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reader, Bowsandlondon95  +, writes (10 October 2012):
Bowsandlondon95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI hardly know him so why would he just not like me? :L i don't know, when i catch him looking at me he looks away. And if i seehim around college he smiles so i really dont know!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 October 2012):
 You do know that grownups are nice even to people they don't really like...
why do you think that looking away quickly signals that he likes you?
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reader, Bowsandlondon95 +, writes (10 October 2012):
Bowsandlondon95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, its just like that. He has accepted a few of my friends but not me :L I have no idea why. He seemed really nice, I just dont understand. I don't want to come across as too desperate, messaging "hi", why he hasnt accepted and stuff like that. I really like him and every time I see him in college he looks then looks away really quickly, acting like he likes me.
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth  +, writes (10 October 2012):
 Why don't you just ask him why he hasn't responded to your friend request?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 October 2012):
if he won't accept you on facebook there is someone or something he does not want you to see...
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reader, Bowsandlondon95 +, writes (10 October 2012):
Bowsandlondon95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe were speaking on facebook earlier and he seemed nice and was replying within 2 minutes! I just dont get why he will not accept me? He even said he had recieved the request!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 October 2012):
I agree.. you may like him but he's making it clear he's not interested.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 October 2012):
 I guess he doesn't like you then. How can you like him when he's ignoring you and being a snob?
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reader, Bowsandlondon95 +, writes (9 October 2012):
Bowsandlondon95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks haha, we were meant to be refilming again but he is working apparantly and doesnt really like acting. I saw him earlier at college and he didnt say hi or anything, then a bit later on he was walking past me with his friends and he looked then quickly looked away. I am actually so congused, and i really like him.
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reader, Bowsandlondon95 +, writes (8 October 2012):
Bowsandlondon95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice guys! :) no he doesn't have a girlfriend or anything because this is why he agreed to play that part in the scene. ;) we spoke for a bit while on set yesterday and he seemed really nice. But if he liked me surely he would accept? :) We will be filming again in a couple of days so yeah i will see him and obviously have to do these scenes again. His friend said he could 'hook us up' if i wanted to.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (8 October 2012):
I can't really answer that question...only he can. This is the problem with Facebook. People use it for friendships with people when they should use real life. Are you planning on seeing him again? Why not call or text him and ask him to grab some dinner sometime. The only way you can only know if someone really likes you is to get to know him, ask him out, and get to know each other.
I know plenty of people on Facebook who accept friend requests and barely know the people. Some people will only accept the "cool" or "popular" people as they don't want other people they know they've friended someone unpopular. Facebook is a bit on the ridiculous side. One of my friends has 364 friends on her Facebook account. My position is...who cares? Are all of those people REALLY her friends? No. Half of them wouldn't even speak to her on the street if she saw them. So don't take Facebook so personally. When I actually had an account, I didn't accept anyone, but we are still all friends outside of this social networking site. Forget FB and call him up.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (8 October 2012):
Maybe you have bad picture on your profle so he can't see who you are?
I honestly don't know, maybe you should ask him why he hasn't accepted you. Maybe he's got a girlfriend who got really angry with him for acting as "boyfriend" in a movie, and doesn't want him to hang out with you again. Who knows. Or maybe he was a fake who just pretended to like you. Or maybe he hasn't noticed the friend request because he had lots of notifications on the day you sent it to him.
There could be endless reasons why...
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth +, writes (8 October 2012):
These could be the possible reasons:
1) He's playing hard to get.
2) He isn't interested in you or thinks that you're moving too fast.
I tend to think it's the former. Whatever you do, don't give him any more attention at all. In fact, cancel the friend request. If he's interested, HE will contact you. All the best.
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reader, nosila  +, writes (8 October 2012):
 he's a player, stay away from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2012): Maybe he has a girlfriend or fancies you? its a difficult one why dont you ask him if you see him x
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reader, lmao1989 +, writes (8 October 2012):
 Maybe he feels uncomfortable because he had just met you and done all this scenery stuff with you and then you've added him maybe he wants to get to know you more in person. He could be a shy guy and not want to add you just yet.
Try cancelling and trying again or pop him a message.
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