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Why did my teacher act in this way?

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Question - (26 July 2007) 14 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 16-17, anonymous writes:

Any ideas why my teacher did the following?

I came to class once (when we had an exam) sucking a lollipop. My teacher sat there smirking to himself and halfway through the exam he marks my work and then walks over real slow. Then suddenly he slam my work in front of me to support his weight and then leans in really close. So his upper body is pressed against and his head is brushing mine, and his arm is crushing my breast. And he was panting. Then he turn to me and whisper "The reason u didnt get a 7 here is because i need the second half of the unit first" and then he got up like nothing had happened and walked away.

Why? lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007):

Then you have some serious issues about fidelity. If you have a fiance why bother with what you perceive as a teacher coming onto you?

Smarten up already.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007):

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I only made that comment because I am telling it at as it is. How would u feel if you asked advice on a situation and i accused u of lying? Your not here to accuse people of lying your here to offer your advice, i assure you i have plenty better things to do with my time and for your information it is not a school girl crush i have a fiance. :)

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (30 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntWell just for the record I have been married now to my dear husband for thirty two years.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007):

Yah I think the same, she just wants attention and that she can't handle some injected reality, she lashes out and thinks that stating a fact you are divorced should mean something. Dumb!

You have your reasons and it makes you a strong woman who has endured and your advice demonstrates you are wise and loving and wont' take crap.

Cheers.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (29 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntThis poster is using her very active imagination, I can tell by her responses. This never happened, or if it did it wasn't quite how she tells it. She simply has a school girl crush, she didn't come here for advice.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007):

If it did happen, he's an idiot pig.

I wouldn't feel special if an adult male, in a position of authority overstepped his boundaries-I'd can him or tell my Dad and my Dad would set him straight.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007):

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lol ur divorced right?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (29 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntJust your imagination it's okay it happens.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007):

tell you what y not jus go to your head of year or to the main person of the school and get him done for it if you didnt like the way he was actin jus tell him what can he do bowt it ! if he carrys on go to the police and tell them whats goin on & for the question 'why is he doing it ' well maby he is attracted to you in some way or maby hes just a perve dont let this carry on if you feel uncomftable with this situation

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntThen if you think he was out of line why don't you report him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007):

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hahaha so why do teacher student relationships happen? And what you mean I',m reading too much into it. I stated exactly what happened. As it did. I suggested nothing. He came over to me during an exam pressed his entire body against me and whispered to me: just that. If i am being 'dillusional' thinking a normal red-blooded male might be taking advantage of his postion then forgive me but you are being more dillusional in believing that teachers never fancy their students. If this was the case there would never be any people in prison for it: which there are.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntI guess he needed the second half of the unit (whatever that is), who knows but you are reading something into it that doesn't exist. He's your teacher he not interested in you other than as teacher/pupil. You simply have a crush on him everyone has had a crush one time or another, don't worry they fade away.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007):

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? What? I asked why he did it? and you not answer... If you dont know why bother answering?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntI have no idea what a "7" means or what the "the second half of a unit" is but I do know a posting from somebody with a school girl crush when see it. Nothing of any import happened here. Ignore it and go have some fun with your pals.

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