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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy over a year ago at a family function that at the time claimed he liked me and wanted to speak to me again. After taking my number, he never contacted me so I let it go and moved on. I met one of his relatives at a party and he asked if the guy messaged me. I then responded no and the relative explained the situation of what happened and why. Again I took it for what it was and didn't bother to put any more attention to the matter. I recently saw the guy again at another function and we have a brief exchange and spend some time together during the function. At the end we exchanged social media accounts and started to message each other. At times he would message for a few then not for a long time until I message him again saying something. I took it as him not seeing the alert from the app. Finally after getting fed up with the app and lack of timely responses I ask to exchange numbers which he does and when I message him on his number he doesn't respond at all. Then a few days later I ask if he wants to go on an outing with me and a friend and he responds no he's not in the mood. So I guess my real questions here are why would a guy take a number in the first place if he wasn't going to show mutual interest, and why would his actions and mood suddenly change from how he was the other night when we met.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 March 2016):
 Am afraid he is just not that interested in you. He was out enjoying himself, he asked for your number and he never followed up the next day, normal enough, then you both met and again exchanged contact details, but he has went off the radar again. To me it just seems he is not interested. It could also be possible that he has a girlfriend.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (15 March 2016):
Because sometimes when we are at a function we are all happy,a few drinks,carefree and just enjoying the day.Its possible that this guy liked you at the function and asked for your number on the spur of the moment.Then a few days after the function,decided he was not going to ring you.This happens all the time so dont feel to sad about it.One thing we can be sure in Life is change and this is an example of that on a personal level.You deserve, a caring loving guy,who will respect you and keep his word.Life is a gift,enjoy it and put your experience with this guy as a learning curve.Best wishes for the future.NORA B.
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