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*heerleader17
writes:*OP's Original Title*Okay well my ex boyfriend and I broke up. Why is because he wanted to do things that i didnt and anyway he crashed my facebook and put all over it that i am goin gay and im a slut and everyting like that. Well know he claims he didnt do it and then he sent me an email that said he wanted to get back together and he would never make that mistake by dumping me again. So me being stupid and blown away he said all that said... yes. anyway know i was talking to a few people and those 2 weeks we were apart he got back with his ex and was i guess doing those things he wasnt getting from me. I found out and was really upset and know i dont know if saying yes was the right thing or not. what do you all think? stay with him or break up i feel a connection but maybe its not the right one.
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reader, ARELI +, writes (10 July 2010):
 like the rest i think dump him hes not worth it better u found out now.....dump him now ull find some one that is for u.....only u.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 July 2010):
The connection you feel is probably more like a death row inmate who is sat in an electric chair, not the connection two people who love each other should feel. Look at this list.
1 - He wanted to do things you didn't.
2 - When you did break up, his reaction was to crash your facebook site and claim you were gay and that you were a slut.
3 - He now suddenly claims he didn't do it.
4 - He went back to an ex.
Pretty big list, isn't it?
Dump him. Seriously. He's not offering anything other than deceit and misery. Dump him and find a better guy who will treat you with more respect.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Just as you said, apparently she was willing to do the things with him you weren't. He's only interested in meeting his own needs, and that's not going to change if you start dating him again. Dump him, find someone that will respect you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): "Why is because he wanted to do things that i didnt and anyway he crashed my facebook and put all over it that i am goin gay and im a slut and everyting like that. Well know he claims he didnt do it"Right there is all the reason you need to break up with him - don't do things you don't feel comfortable doing and he's immature so of course he'll also lie about not doing it; him sleeping with another girl while claiming to still be in love with you only re-enforces the fact he's not a good person to be with."those 2 weeks we were apart he got back with his ex and was i guess doing those things he wasnt getting from me."Also sounds like he'll cheat on you while you're back together anyway.Just break up with him and find a better guy. I know it seems hard right now and you think you love him, but if you respect yourself, it's better to just break it off asap.
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