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spanna
writes:right one for the guys i think but girls answers welcome to.if your gf was initiating sex with you and she knows that you r hard in that area, and ur alone in the house, why would you push her hand away? this happened to me the yesterday morning. his parents were both out to work and we were alone, and we started touching each other than out of no where he pushed me hand away, so confused :S then later he was saying that hes parents would be out tonight and and i could go round and done his little wink wink as in we can have sex we'll be alone. im so confused. surely guys would like a girl who wants to have sex at most opportunities. i remember when we meet n we're just texting that he said he wondered whether the rumour about girls going to girl schools, which i did, were extra horny. he said he hoped so. im so confused please helpthank you
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reader, spanna +, writes (5 July 2007):
spanna is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks to everyone who helped i really appreciate it. i dont think he is too worried about gettingcaught by his parents they know i'm there most of the time n leave us alone.
he was in the mood lat night and his parents were actually in this time and just across the hall watching tv, i know that prob sounds really bad but we r quiet.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (4 July 2007):
 I would not worry about that too much at all these things do happen, sometimes i'm not a morning person as i get paranoid about morning breath and not having had my shower, and like the others said maybe he was just worried about being caught in the act by his parents.
And sometimes we just don't feel like it , does not mean that we think or care any less.
Take care.xx.
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reader, MistakenForStrangers +, writes (4 July 2007):
 Hah, I think the BIG thing to remember here is that there are a whole load of external reasons why he pushed your hand away that you should consider.Coming from a guy; I would want to have (at least) taken a shower, brushed my teeth etc before sex, so don't worry.Rushing up stairs to do that would have been SUCH a mood killer, don't you think?Also, there ARE some guys out there who want the moment to be perfect (contrary to popular belief) loldo not worry!!
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reader, eddie  + ♥, writes (4 July 2007):
 Maybe for some reason, OF HIS OWN, he didn't want sex at that particular moment. Maybe he wasn't clean down there....who knows,. Don't make a bid deal out of it.
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reader, Veasse +, writes (4 July 2007):
 Dont worry about his, perhapshe felt uncomfortable in his parents housead had t thnk abot it.
Perhaps he knew they would be back soon but knew of a better time. I.E Tonight.
Ask him why he was so reluctant earlier and take it on face value, he was obviously hot for you if he had an erection, that doesnt mean a guy wants to do it there and then...
Double check and say you need to understand why he didnt want to earlier and then let it go... unless he says something that is offensive then you have the right to refuse to have sex with him.
take care and dont be confused, men can have strange quirks we will never understand and they will never understand us... the best we can hope for is just to communicate right and enjoy each other!
good luck
Veasse x
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