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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, everyone ! Thee's one thing I don't understand about the relationship. When you have a boyfriend / girlfriend, people always say their pasts are just the past. If the person is not a virgin, then it's not a big deal as long as you love them. So why can't I just lose my virginity when virginity is not a big deal ? Reply to this Question |
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (18 October 2009):
 Um, okay, so just lost your virginity then. Why are you asking us? We're not your parents.
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female
reader, Ask oldersister + ♥, writes (18 October 2009):
 Why don't you have your own identity and values? Yeah, many people rack up their credit cards without giving it a second thought either. Are your aspirations to be average? You are the only one to suffer the consequences of your actions, not the average population- that burden falls on you, not other people you are basing your decisions on.
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male
reader, CaringGuy  + ♥, writes (18 October 2009):
It's important to lose it with someone who cares about you and with someone who you care about. Take your time and find a woman who you care about and who cares about you.
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