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Why can't I feel it when I cum during sex?

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Question - (30 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2009)
A female Bangladesh age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi i am really ashame of this question because to be honest. every time i have sex with my sex partter i can never tell when or if I cum?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009):

Kellyxxx is trying to tell you that not having an orgasm is normal. This is not true. While not orgasming might happen a lot to women (too much) and might happen to her, there is no reason for you to go without having orgasms.

If you don't know whether you are having one or not, then you are probably not. You need to educate yourself and your partner about female anatomy, ie the clitoris. Perhaps you should try masturbating more if you don't already. Find out what feels good for you. Then, let your partner know.

Try this website:

www.scarleteen.com

It has tons of info on all sorts of sex-related issues.

Please don't be ashamed, and PLEASE don't think that never having an orgasm is ok.

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntWhen you come there will be a clear fluid which is the consistency of urine which will come from glands called 'skenes glands'. Most women don't come during sex so its a normal thing. As long as you enjoy sex there is nothing to be ashamed about if you don't come8

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