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Why can't I cum during a blowjob?

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Question - (16 March 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ever since my first blow job i haven't been able to cum? This is like 10-12 times now. This girl I see comes over and blows me and she gets frustrated because i can't cum. What can i do to cum when i get a blowjob? Help Please

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A female reader, nnw4 Virgin Islands - U.S. +, writes (16 March 2012):

I have been with my bf for about 8 months now and only recently have I been able to make him cum off of heads. I build him up...I strip tease, do for play and then i go on my knees and let him feed it to me. I start off by doing it slow, then i speed up, deep throat, and lastly i focus on just the tip. She has to be spontaneous and change up her motions. I also use altoid mint right before i give him oral sex, sometimes. Tell her to try different things.

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A male reader, TrancedRhythmEar Saudi Arabia +, writes (16 March 2012):

TrancedRhythmEar agony auntDont make it a goal to orgasm. Her frustration is putting pressure on u when instead she shouldnt be she should be happy youre a willing participant and willing to have fun. Try different positions. When im sitting and shes kneeling wearing a sexy pair of heels makes me blast lol. Good luck stud.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (16 March 2012):

Danielepew agony auntCerberus is right.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012):

You probably don't get the friction and stimulation necessary to do so. It's not unusual. I had a friend with the same issue, he just gave up masturbation and after a while his sensitivity returned and they worked for him.

Other than that maybe her technique is not right.

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