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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel like I'm one of them good looking guys..... I get told I'm cute, I'm handsome.... no ones ever actually called me ugly People tend to love my personality once I get to know them toBut why can't I sleep with the guys I find attractive? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 March 2017):
 Maybe because you come across as a little arrogant and men who you find attractive either want more than just sex or else they don't find you attractive. Maybe you should broaden your horizon a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2017): I would imagine you are developing infatuations rather than friendships with attractive men and this leaves you with unrequited love syndrome.
Its not about cute or not cute.
Its about the way you relate with each other and how comfortable you feel with each other.
Its nothing like walking down the market and choosing a comfortable hat for example.
Because the hat has to be in agreement that it wants to sit on your head, so to speak.
So looking and flirting isnt enough.
You really need to be sure that you are suited and special to each other because if you are too promiscuous with many partners you will get a reputation for being a health hazard.
Plus some of those whom you admire will already be in a committed relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2017): So... who exactly are you sleeping with? The ones you are not attracted to?
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