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writes:Men irritate me lol. So I've known this dude for a few years now. I'm not sure if I like him, but I kinda think he likes me. This one time he comes up and stands to the side of me. He just kept staring at me- i kept on waiting for him to stop and to go into the room or whatever but he never did. So I went up to him and was like why are you staring at me and why cant you just go into the room? He just started major league blushing and then i kinda pushed him into the room lol. This other time I was waiting in a room for my friends and he passed by the room, looked in, saw me and then walked away. Then I think he went into the bathroom, got water in his hands, came back into the room and threw it on me! It was just a little bit and his main point was to annoy me- which it pretty much did lol. I told my cousin to tell him to say that he likes me and he was like why cant she say it first? Its just so annoying. Why cant he just say something? Is he being shy because judging from the other stuff that hes said and done he is definetly NOT shy.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (29 April 2010):
 Sounds like he's just shy. Playing games like he's doing is easy, but putting himself in a position of possible rejection is hard. Especially in a school type environment with friends and other peers around.
There's not much you can do except confront him and make him say it, or wait for him to possibly say it himself (which may never happen).
This is a more common situation then you may think....
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reader, single gal  +, writes (29 April 2010):
he just might be shy around you. ask him out for coffee or something and ask him about the strange behaviour he s been giving you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 April 2010):
Because he's shy. That's why. Imagine fancying someone, and then that someone doesn't come up and say they like you, but says 'Why are you staring at me and why can't you just go into the room'. That would scare the hell out of most men! Yes, he is shy and won't approach you because he has no idea about whether you like him. If you like this guy, you need to go to him. So good luck.
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