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Why be friends with mean people?

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Question - (23 February 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 16-17, anonymous writes:

Why do people still want to be friends with mean people? I don't mean it'll stop them getting crap from the 'friend' but it's like they know they're nasty and just don't care.

My mate got left on a bus to go an hour more than he wanted to because he fell asleep and his b!tch friend that gets the same bus deliberately left him knowing he had no money to get back. Yet he still feels like because she USED to e his best friend, he owes her something. I don't get it!!

Why be friends with someone you know stirs up trouble on purpose, even about you sometimes and being loose friends with them won't stop it?? I don't get the appeal.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2012):

cos he has low self esteem. people who have low self esteem allow others to trample all over them.

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A female reader, Dear Mandy United Kingdom + , writes (23 February 2012):

Dear Mandy agony auntWell then I would just leave him to it, if he wants to associate himself with people like that, if he wants to be her friend he will learn the hard way.

Mandy x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2012):

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They aren't friends anymore, he just wants to be. I don like him; he's just a friend; we are two completely different people when it comes to relationships and standards.

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A female reader, Dear Mandy United Kingdom + , writes (23 February 2012):

Dear Mandy agony auntHI

they obviously have a connection, if it's not bothering him, why are you letting it bother you? do you have feelings for him? if you do then maybe you should let him know that there is a nicer person there for him, one that wouldn't leave him on the bus!

Mandy x

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