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Why am I very very sexually attracted to my x brother in law?

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Question - (31 August 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2014)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I'm very unhappily married, I recently separated. I have an x brother in law, my husband's sisters x husband I have become very sexually attracted to. I fully intend to ask him for sex. Sex or the lack of really wasn't a problem for me until I met my x brother in law at a family function and talked with him for quite a while. He really is a good guy who took a lot of abuse from my sister in law. He's smart, funny and compassionate, nothing my husband is. My husband is a loser, unemployed, drinks too much and is abusive like his sister. Would it be all that bad just to ask him for sex once in a while? Has anyone had a similar situation with an inlaw? I know he's not looking for a relationship and neither am I. I just don't know why he makes me want him sexually, I can get sex if I want it but there's something driving me to have sex with him and I think maybe because it's considered forbidden. I feel so dirty about it because I think of doing kinky sexual acts with him and having secret sex dates at his house in the bed my sister in law shared with him. Am I a sexual mess? Why do I want to be a trashy whore for him, I want him to use me for sex. No man has ever made me feel like this, it's like I want to be his slut when he want's sex. I've never been over sexed, I had 3 lover's in my entire life ,now I want to go sexually wild with him and I'm confidant I could lure him into it.

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A female reader, Brokenv Canada +, writes (1 September 2014):

Just do it! You and he are not with anyone. Just remember that this is just a sexual thing....not a relationship. Very hard to separate!

Good Luck:)

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (1 September 2014):

Honeypie agony auntWhy can't this sexual exploration and boundary testing WAIT til your divorce is final?

Or is it that you don't REALLY want a divorce but just some sex and attention which you don't seen to get from your husband?

I'm also not sure what you actually asking advice on, as you clearly state what your intentions are.

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A female reader, Intrigued3000 Canada +, writes (31 August 2014):

Intrigued3000 agony auntI say go for it girlfriend:))) You're at your sexual peak. The two of you are unattached, and if there is a mutual attraction, hell why not!!!???? It's OK to feel this way. It's OK to want to fulfill your fantasies. Go get him!

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