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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, my problem is short and sweet..... basically I am not a virgin by any means, and have had sex MORE than enough with previous long term boyfriends. I've never been nervous in the bedroom, have always been very experimental, and had a great sex life...More recently I've been seeing this new guy for about 3-4 months and we're ready to sleep with each other. We have booked a romantic get away to do so. The problem is, I have NEVER been soooo nervous about anything in my whole life. Especially to think that I was always so confident with sex.What is going on!!!!! I'm sooo scared.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): ah that takes me back! it sounds like you really love this guy so you feel more pressure because you want it to be amazing! just relax, its just sex and your both ready! relax and have fun! oh and be safe lol!
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reader, prenezmoila  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 How it was for me when this happened was, I liked him too much and I didn't want to screw it up. You need to spend more time with him before you jump into it, or, talk to him and let him know that you're nervous. Once you're comfortable getting that intimate with someone you care about that much, it's going to be fantastic. Good luck :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): I think this may be a sign your feelings are alot stronger for this guy than the others as you may feel you want everything to be perfect, just try and relax and let what happends, happen as it seems you have a wonderfull evening planned.
good luck
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