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anonymous
writes:I love my boyfriend very much, and i know he would never cheat or do anything to hurt me. so why do i keep finding myself worried about him finding someone else when he goes out with the boys? and get jealous when he talks to girls? and the fact he has hundreds of them on his facebook? Am i normal? are there other people like me? or am i a terrible person for behaving in this way? just want some advice really as to whether others experience this?
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (9 September 2007):
 it is normal i have a friend she is just like you. i do feel sorry as it can be low self-esteem maybe you don't believe you deserve him so when he goes out you think he will find someone who does.
one way of getting over this and feel more ok with him going out is by meeting with his friends guys/girls or going out when he does or talking to him about it. but don't let it rule you jealiousy ruins many relatonships don't let it ruin yours
good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): hi, you a perfectly normal i do the same with my boyfriend,he is extremly fine and gets alot of attenstion from girls. i konw he'd never cheat on me or hurt me the same as you but i find myself think "whts he up to whos he with when he gos out too".. it will pass or at least it has started to ess with me anyway. xx
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reader, Jessica-X +, writes (9 September 2007):
 This is perfectly normal to be stressing about your boyfriend whether he is talking to other girls ect. This means that you care about him very very very very very much, which is good.There are Hundreds of girls just like you worrying about their boyfriends talking to girls. you aren't a treible person for behaving like this because liek i said. It is perfectly NORMAL. About Facebook, there a thousands of girls on there that look at boy's profile everyday, so they are attracted to your boyfriend becuase he is obiously very Hot/Fit/Sexy so thay are bound to add him because of this.[= Jessica =]
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reader, Jualsy  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 Perhaps you want different things in this relationship. Some men would be more content to do the things you enjoy together and put the other "boys and girls" on the back burner....seems like you need a boost to your self esteem and confidence in yourself, or you need to ask if this is the relationship you want.
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