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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I liked this boy for a long time and he knows it. He always looks at me and smiles.., My BFF likes him too. I thought I was getting on his nerves so one night I asked him if he disliked me. He said that he doesn't dislike me and see me as someone who understands him more then anyone from school and he doesn't feel anything else. At a party he was talking to my bff and tried to avoid me. When his mom talked to the other moms when she came to pick him up, he was looking at me and smiling. My BFF "called" him for when we get back to school. I haven't have a guy like since 5th grade and every year she get 2 boys to like her. Does he like her or me? Do you think it is fair that she "calls" him? HELP!
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (12 July 2010):
 alrighty, well I know you're either 13,14 or 15 so it may seem normal at your age for a friend to 'dibs' a guy. However, people really can't 'call' people. However, her saying that may justify her later if the guy chooses you to get mad at you.
however, it seems odd that he avoided you and talked to her instead.
I did notice that you mentioned that she gets 2 guys to like her every year, well it sort of sounds like you are trying to compete with her or catch up to her. Figuratively speaking. Relationships shouldn't be like that and you should be happy hanging out with friends, going to school, spending time with family, etc until you find the guy for you and when you do you will have NO DOUBTS whether he likes you or not.
When a guy likes you, he'll most likely let you know. However, in your case you are young and I'm assuming he is too so there is a good chance he is shy. Theres also a chance he does like you then. Or that he likes your friend. Or that he likes both of you and doesn't know who to pick yet. Or that he doesn't like either of you than more than a friend.
Don't ask him 'if he dislikes you' because him saying 'no, i don't dislike you' doesn't mean 'i like you' because he could mean 'just friends' instead, if you're brave, confront him and ask him direct if he likes you or be more subtle and ask if he would like to hang out with just you sometime. If he says no to that, then you have your answer, atleast about whether he likes you or not.
btw, don't let a boy come between a friendship :) remember that haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): He has explained to you and is avoiding you so leave him be. There will be someone else for you.
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