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Which is hotter - blonde or brunette?

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Question - (10 January 2008) 33 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2013)
A female Australia age 18-21, anonymous writes:

A bit of a survey here...

Are girls hotter as blondes? or brunettes?

I would love to know your personal preferance...

thnx xoxo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2013):

This is for all the men out there that actually believe that blondes are better in bed and more adventurous. Everyone has hands and a tongue etc. Don't be so insulting as to say that if you have brown hair you are somehow less sexual as a woman. Whatever you may find more attractive that's your business, but it's ridiculous to imply that your hair colour has any impact on anything other than first impressions.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011):

I have always preferred brunettes and find them way more of a turnon , in conjunction with intelligence, than blondes. What I often find a turnoff about blondes is the fact that their hair has been obviously dyed.

To me brunettes do not have to resort to the usual 'high heels and short skirts' that I see more with blondes, to get my attention..

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A male reader, EuropeanGuy87 United States +, writes (24 April 2011):

Blond for me ..great skin,and they are different... I read an article about natural blond females..they seem to have higher levels of estrogen..which makes them less hairy and more feminine..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010):

A Blonde is not just the hair color, it is the whole package! There is nothing more unattractive than a bleach blond color on a brunette! I can even swear blond women have specific behavior, attitude, physical presence, even smell if you want due to common genetic makup.I think man's preference is genetically predetermined and formed during the early years mostly by their mothers. Personally, if all things equal, there's absolutely nothing hotter than a real blonde! Well, personally, all other things don't even have to be equal to choose a blond a million times out of a million! All my relations have been with blond women and every time it was phenomenal. Tried once with a brunette - she had all the qualities a man could dream of but just lacked that "blond" magic that made an excellent experience unforgettable! And it wasn't personality issue...Don' know, maybe I'm damaged but yes, Blondes all the way!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010):

blondes because they look hotter and sexier

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010):

~IRRELEVANT~

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010):

To be honest, I think that brunettes and blondes are both very sexy, and red-heads can be, but rarely am I attracted to one. If I had to choose, I would say the blondes, just because they're light hair goes well with the white colored skin, on my opinion. However, the contrast of brunette hair and white skin (more tan, however) seems to be very hot as well. I have brown hair myself, and it seems odd that I go for the blondes, but it's just what I seem to be attracted to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010):

i think blondes are sexier. they usally do what u want and are better looking.i dont have anything against brunets. i just think blondes are usally hoter and sexier.i have dated and had sex with both and blondes were more agressive and were better in bed . thats my honest opinion

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

Brunettes are damn sexy and just stunning opposed to blondes. Blondes all look the same and I just don't find them that appealing.

Brunettes all the way, redheads are pretty sexy also.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008):

EM!!!!!!Well All the girls ive been with Im going to say the brunettes were pretty hot, Ive only been with well a few blonde girls and they were good to so im stuck really!!!!!!!EM! Im a brunette and ive never had a problem when I was blonde I never had a problem Em! beauty is skin deep so who give a flyin saucer as long as you like the personality GO FOR IT EH!!!!!!!!! LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008):

Oh, shut up, eyes. Don't give my wife any ideas. The trick is to wear dark glasses and look straight ahead. Then no one knows unless I trip over something. :)))

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (1 May 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntYeah I wonder sometimes if his eyes even make it up to the top of a hottie's head to even check the hair color! I pack a rolling pin whenever I take the lug out in public.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008):

Hey eyes, I didn't know that your husband was an intellectual like me. I agree with him 100%. My wife sighs a lot also.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (29 April 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntAsked my husband and he said, and I quote, "Blonde is better if she has big boobs and brunette is better if she has big boobs." Sigh...he's soooo deep.

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A female reader, SparkleBaby United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2008):

SparkleBaby agony auntBlondes tease, Brunette's please.

LOL.

I think both are hot though, and plus depends on the person it's on really lol.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008):

the hair doesnt make them hot, its the rest anyway 1 colour may suit them better than the other. they can be blonde and ugly, as brunettes can be and ugly. as it is blondes can be smart and brunettes can be dumb. Im a brunette, i get plenty of heads turned. Still in school most popular in my group i've been told by heaps, i act dumbish sumtimes and have "blonde moments" but im still smart, though my friends call me an nerd every now and then they also sometimes say i ought 2 be blonde :P dumb stereotypes. who cares!?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008):

BRUNETTES !!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008):

Both are hot but they are two different types.

Blonds come off as dumber, more impulsive, more party-girl, happier, etc.

Brunettes come off as more reserved, intelligent, older--ish, smarter(NOT a bad thing for some guys) etc.

I'm sure you can understand that there are certain ways a guy can be hot in each category, and that there are some guys who really belong in one category or the other. Same thing with girls.

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A male reader, xylplxym United States +, writes (12 January 2008):

Sure sure color doesn't matter, beauty within, ect...

But as far as personal preference, I find brunettes hotter than blondes and above that are redheads of course.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008):

it's doesn't matter, brunettes are fun but blondes are more funner to be with!

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntDear anonymous reader, there are plenty of gorgeous brunettes out there. Courtney Cox Arquette, Natalie Imbruglia, The Corrs but to name a few. So stop running us brunette women down, we are not all as hairy as orangutangs thank you very much. There are plenty of guys who love us dusky maidens. In my experience I have as much fun as your average blonde, it is an ABSOLUTE MYTH that blondes have more fun. Nuff said Dusky xxx

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

hello1 agony auntI don't think it really matters. Some guys may pefer a colour, like blonde but still go for a black haired girl.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntDepends on the shade of the colours or the colour of your skin certain hair colours can make you look pale and pasty you have to get examples and put them against your face to see what suits you (ive had mine all shades of browns but i have to say a deep red really gets attention)

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

hlskitten agony auntStrange question. Its like asking whats best, salt n vinegar crisps or cheese n onion. Totally personal preference, and the answers will be varying and an unreliable outcome.

I have recently dyed my hair dark again. After 2 yrs of being blonde, its better condition dark, but i prefer blonde on myself, so will be going back to blonde nearer the summer.

Still think its a hard question to guage though.

C xxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008):

My preference in guys is I have dated both blondes and brunette guys. I'll be honest, the blonde guy I dated was really hot and sexy, and the biggest reason I liked him was kind of as a trophy boyfriend. I know its terrible. But haircolor is not that big of a deal to me. Other things are more important, from the physical standpoint. Like I like guys with nice big hands and nice feet. That's important to me. I know I'm weird. Like if a guy has skinny fingers, I don't like.

But I guess ideally I like blonde guys and I like brunette guys if they are light brown. I like both, I like em all.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008):

I naturally have black hair and fair skin and when I was in high school I used to sun dye my hair light brown with some blonde and I used to get really tan. I wanted to look like what I thought was considered pretty. And I used to get a average amount of attention but I thought I looked great.

But then eventually I went to college and I let my natural hair grow out and stopped tanning my skin, so that I was completely natural, black hair, fair skin. Ever since then the amount of attention I would get increased by like a million.

So my point is that I think what's most attractive is what actually looks good on you and not what looks good on somebody else. Blonde or brunette or whatever, as long as its the right tone for your complexion and it brings out your features.

On another note, it is totally true that no matter what your haircolor may be, alot of a guys attraction is going to have alot to do with your personality. When it comes to guys, I would worry more about that than about your haircolor.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008):

What colour is your hair? Does it make a difference? ..... Maybe you'll have the answer (or maybe you'll realise that you're wondering about a media stereotype that doesn't exist).

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A female reader, sxc lady United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

I agree that beauty isn't only skin deep and i can tell you Red heads are better.Blondes may have more fun but Red heads have more sex and no thats not from experience but they conducted a questionnaire in Germany and that was the results.God im glad im a Red head!!!

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (10 January 2008):

SamuraiRick agony auntMy initial answer would be both. Dark, light and every shade in between will do for me, but I know that’s not the answer you want.

Gun to my head, if I had to choose I might lean to brunettes more. But I don’t go out of my way to go after brunettes. Another physical trait I like is brown eyes. I'd go for a brown eyed blond more than a blued eyes brunette if that were the choice. So there.

The variables go a little deeper than just the hair color. And I guarantee you my answer will change tomorrow depending on who I'm dating! Beauty is beauty and every woman has something special that makes her beautiful. Hair color is just one small element.

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (10 January 2008):

Frank B Kermit agony auntThe hottest girl is the one that treats me the way I want to be treated.

-Frank B Kermit

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntDoesnt matter,

Confidence and personality, is what attracts the oposite sex. Unless your Superficial, then I guess you might have a preference, but then you might be missing out on a great partner, just because they have the wrong colour hair.

XX

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008):

Well, I did a bit of a private survey on this subject a while back.

All things considered, the natural, not peroxide, blonde is by far the sweetest tasting. However, there will be as many preferences as there are people on the planet! Natural blondes also are generally less hairy, or maybe it just appears that way because the hair isn't quite so noticeable.

Brunettes don't have a lot going for them unless they're called Penelope Cruz.

The best of all though, are redheads. Absolutely fiery and tigers in the sack.

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A female reader, Serinity United States +, writes (10 January 2008):

Serinity agony auntIt's not the color of the hair that matters. There are many beautiful women with all different hair colors. But true beauty comes from within.

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