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anonymous
writes:Can someone please tell me which man lives a better life: A man who has sex with multiple partners due to enjoyment of that or a man who is a virgin, has never had a real girlfriend and has the belief that he will find the girl of his dreams. I'm asking this question because the are people, particularly ladies that talks bad about guys who sleep around with women that they can have but yet they say they don't prefer guys who are inexperienced. so I wanna know really what the benefits and pitfalls of those two different guys? Reply to this Question
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (2 June 2012):
 Men with a sexual past present more of a challenge to women and while they grow tired of the baggage that sometimes comes with those types of guys, they idea that they might be "the one" seems achievable, even admirable to their deep-rooted desire to attain something other women want. A guy who is a virgin will be inexperienced at pleasing them; may feel clumsy and bumble in bed. While he comes without all the baggage of ex-lovers, he presents no challenge really. As crazy as it seems most women will not appreciate being the "first" in any man's sexual history unless you're both 16.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2012): . . . but what about if the virgin wants another virgin, as an adult? Is it still okay then? Is the virgin guy still to be admired for holding out for what he believes in?
I find that most women only respect the male virgin lifestyle as long as the virgin isn't allowed to look for thing in his partner. Women certainly respect male virgins less for wanting another virgin.
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reader, Beaniepants  +, writes (2 June 2012):
 Go with the virgin. To hell with inexperience, that can be fixed by some (duh!!) experience!! The virgin sounds like the kind of guy that (if you are the right one for him) would adore you and treat you like the only woman in the world. And us woman like that kind of thing ;o) Plus the bonding of sex is something he hasn't cheapened with multiple woman for fun. For a guy like him, gaining that experience and feeling that closeness would be like glue. Just my two cents =)
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