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anonymous
writes:Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out since mid june now. Whenever we lie down and kiss each other, sometime i'm touching her breasts, I start to feel sick to my stomache. This is very embarasing. Usually i just go to the bathroom, sometimes throw up, and take a Gravel to help my stomache. As i said before this is very embarrasing and awkward. Also the Gravel has a side effect of making people tired. I want to know why this is happening and what i can do to stop it. Luckily i havent thrown up on her or in the same room as her yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): I agree with the other posters about your not being ready. Your subconcious is telling you that you should cool it for now. I think you should listen to old "sub" and don't feel you are supposed to be doing something you aren't ready for. You are not really comfortable enough with your relationship to this girl. And could I be wrong in guessing that this happens more when she is the "initiator" of the intimacy? If it helps any, you are not unusual in your "problem". It is more common than you might think with guys your age. They just don't talk about it. Don't be overly concerned. It doesn't mean you are less of a "man". It will pass. You will know when you are ready for intimacy. Don't take offense at my saying that you are very young and entering a strange new world. Go slowly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm 14 and I know that thats kinda young. I know my limits and i'm not going to have real sex any time soon. Thanx for ur advice. She is commin over soon so i'll keep u posted.
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reader, Dos_Vinci  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 I agree. I forgot to post that. Though your old enough to do some exploring and experimenting. You are much too young for real sex.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 I think the other poster is right about you being nervous. You're very young to be engaging in any sexual type activity and I'd suggest you're not ready for it yet.
CD
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reader, Dos_Vinci +, writes (26 March 2007):
You're just getting nervous. Do what you have to to get through it. Close your eyes take a deep breath and let everything float away. Try to get a bit farther every time. Eventually it'll all get easier. You're going to get through this, I promise.
Ps: Repost in a few weeks/months. I'd like to know how your doing in the future.
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