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writes:When will I find a guy? It's been over a year since I've kissed a guy and just over a year since I've had a boyfriend. I know that I'm young and I've got the rest of my life in front of me. It's just getting me down at the moment (ok this is only a part of whats getting me down...but I'm not going to go into all of that...) as alot of my year have boyfriends. Ok this may sound weird but I miss kissing someone and I miss being held and hugged...call me odd but I do! *sighs* Oh well life goes on I guess....
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reader, dearkelja  + ♥, writes (7 March 2008):
 You will find that guy when you least expect it. Do you go out and socialize? Are you in places where you might meet someone?
The other thing you might try is getting involved in things you love to do so you wont be having this excess time to feel bad about this.
Taking time out for yourself is a very generous thing to do for you. Use this "alone" time to do all the things you want to do. Before you know it you'll meet some guy who will sweep you off your feet and you'll be having kids. Now is a good time to enjoy being with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): I have the same problem...try only ever pulling 4 times and none of them being over 10 seconds AND your first kiss saying 'that was hardly a pull'.
whatever you do, DON'T BECOME A SLUT TO GET BOYS. i'm not saying you were planning to but just...don't.
i'm not gonna say ''youre time will come'' cos for all i know your the ugliest girl on this planet and no boy will ever like you. but what i am gonna say is the chances are very, VERY low that you will be single forever.
most guys like girls that are cute, not too loud but still noticable, kinda curvy on the looks side, and that connect with them.
never ever change for a guy.
always be yourself.
good luck and good day hun! =]
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reader, Fionaisme  +, writes (6 March 2008):
 Hey hun. There is no reason to be worried. From my own experience a guy comes along when you least expect him too. It probably sounds easier said that done but you just need to get out there go to discos etc and be yourself. Smile, keep your head up and look like you are having the best time ever. One things i know about guys is that they are usually attracted to a girl who knows how to enjoy herself. It is a lovely feeling hugging and kissing someone, your right. Trust me your guy will come!!!
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reader, classicfun8 +, writes (6 March 2008):
This will sound really cliche but Love finds you when you least expect it. I didn't even get my first boyfriend until recently and I'm 22...I know! I felt like something was wrong with me, my mom even questioned my sexuality! Which believe me caused a big argument because I'm straight. Anyway I didn't even want to date the guy I'm currently with. We joke because when I was younger I told my best friend I didn't think I could ever date someone whom is shorter, younger, and of a different ethnicity. Well surprise surprise I did and I'm absolutely in love with him. So just hang in there, don't make dumb choices just because you miss the warmth of a man's touch. Focus on other things that are important to you and TRUST me he's out there. Perhaps even someone you wouldn't even consider. I think that comes with maturity as well! Trust me you won't be alone and plus being single gives you the opportunity to flirt with lots of fantastic boys guilt free! Good luck and have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): Hi,
I'm kinda in your situation at the moment. I find that the longer I've been single for the higher standards I have for boyfriend material, but I sooo know what you're talking about, it sucks, especially when everyone you look at and everywhere you look there are loved up couples, babies, marriage etc and with Valentine's day just gone being single is not great really!
You should just try and go out with some mates or a long weekend somewhere and have fun, and if you meet someone great! If not just go and have a laugh, at lot of people these days would rather not be in relationships and there are more single people out there than you think.
It's hard not to become desperate though, even though (apparently!) that's the worst thing you can do. I guess it depends whether its lust or love you're after. But no you're not odd, you're normal and not the only one in this situation! (Just don't fall for someone you can't have, it sucks!)
Take care & good luck
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (6 March 2008):
 eh welcome to my world. single for years not kissed a girl in about a year.
yeah.. when am i gonna find a girl eh? one who ain't a fish in bed. and one i can relate to?
funny really, i guess wait your turn.
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