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lover_of_queen
writes:I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months exactly two weeks ago. I saw it coming, and the attraction towards him was fading. There really never was any love, in fact. Not at all. He took it pretty hard...and still is. I, however, managed to be completely oblivious to feelings of guilt and longing...and missing him. I was actually pretty disgusted...and thinking how on EARTH could I have even liked him in the first place. Well, today...I looked on facebook. And he finally came online...and he posted new pictures up. And I just felt my heart kinda skip a few beats...and I got these butterflies in my stomach. Badly.. I felt a mixture of jealousy/wanting to take him back/regretful feelings. It was very strange because the other day I was talking about how much I disliked having him around and how much he annoyed me. Now, I miss him. It's as if those pictures showed him as a completely different person. What can I do about this? What do you think? Thank you so much.
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reader, maid_Marian_vetbabe  +, writes (24 May 2008):
 hey!
Well you really have two options. One is to remember the feelings that made you break up with him and stick to your guns and move on. The other is to give it another shot, send him a message and let him know that youre thinking about him, ask him if he wants to meet up for coffee and see how you feel!
Really theres no right or wrong thing to do, just do what feels right. If you really miss him then give it another go. If its just that you feel bored and lonely without anyone, then maybe its for the best to keep the past in the past! :-D hope this helps a bit!!
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