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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey- really brief just want your views.I'm 22 indian- he's 23 muslim- both born bred uk. We work in the same organisation and have monthly meetings together. He is always looking at his phone so i thought has a gf. He is the quiet shy guy , he went to my uni before one year older we never spoke. I always thought he was fit- he always use to make eye contact- but like i said nothing happened.Anyways at these work shops, day one he sat next to me and was very helpful. Last session he said to me to email him internally and he will send me his piece of writing for this module -to help me. I didn't get a chance to.Today our class was bare and he came late and there were number of seats but he came sit next to me. (I was at a break )he hadn't sat down until saw me then he ofloaded his stuff.In convo he hasn't done that writing so i said i can email it, he said i will give u my personal add and i will email u my other piece of work. I do have crush=my mate said she can see he enjoys talking to me. But that might be friends who knows?as when we alone its awkward silence yet when playing a group game he kept giving me the answers.So. your views?and when should i email him this work.Thanks
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reader, oldbag +, writes (27 March 2013):
 Hi
No need what-so-ever to feel like a fool,you simply sent some work to a colleague.He thanked you.Thats it.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2013): So he replied so briefly its safe to say he is not interested in me and i feel like a fool.
"ah thanks, and yes it wasn't a leak after all, I will show you mine once i complete it, thanks for your help :-) "
(Leak in regards to a car".
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 March 2013):
 don't over think this... he said to email him you said you would so do it.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 March 2013):
 I assume that he's Muslim but you are not , and you are instead Hindu or Sikh ; and that this must have some relevance in your case , otherwise you would not mention it, I mean you would not mention " he's from Leeds I'm from Bristol", right ?
So, chances are that he is just being friendly and that IF he has noticed your attraction to him, or even reciprocated it, he won't do anything about and won't take it any further, because he knows it won't lead to anywhere, but complications.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (25 March 2013):
Hi
Send it straight away,he gave you his email so you could. He just seems the friendly type so go along with that,don't expect more yet.
You could find out if he's single though, ask someone or ask him in a round about way
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2013): Just email the work as you promised you would,thats what friends do. Dont overthink this he is just a colleague being nice so far,nothing else.Flirt a bit if you want more and see if he reciprocates.
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