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When is it the best time to tell her about my problem?

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Question - (11 April 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hi, I need help

I kind of got charge syndrome which means i got small penis, but when it's erect it's about six inches, is this normal to impress a female?

I've made friends with someone but when is best time to tell her about my problem? Even so my doctor said i got good sex drive.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (15 April 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHi there, just saw your post about your worry and had to look up CHARGE syndrome.

If you've talked with your doctor about it, and you know what to expect, and you've got a nice girl, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just make sure that you are fully aware of the risks of having sex, and have good protection in place to lower the risk of sexually transmitted diseases!

I expect you already know this website, but here it is anyway!

http://www.chargesyndrome.org/index.asp

All the best to you, I hope things go well. Just be honest, and careful.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008):

Ok I would suggest waiting to see if your sexual partner comments on it. If they dont then dont tell them, if they do then say I have Charge syndrome and explain what that is.

But it shouldnt stop you from having sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

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well , i was born with charge syndrome , mean certain hasnt delvop proper , that why i bit concern bout it even my doctor said it normal fo me have sex with a girl but i admit that i bit worry bout if my penis will fit in girl vagina

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

6 inches sounds fine, its not small. Its just right infact!. I would even go so far as saying its perfectly normal and I would double check with your doctor to see if you even have anything wrong. It sounds to me as if you just feel a bit paranoid about the size of your manhood, but trust me anythiing longer than 6-7 inches is a waste. the vagina is only about 5 1/2 to 6 inches long anyway!.so stop worrying, you dont need to say anything to this potential girlfriend, because your perfectly normal and you dont need to bring it up at all.

If anything happens between you then relax and let nature take its course, and dont worry!!.

Ok good luck in everything you do.

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

Hi, If I were you, whats the ned to tell her? Your penis is more than ample on erect so she will never know the difference.

Have you really being diagnosed with a syndrome or are youparanoid that your penis isnt big enough?

- By the way...its fine, perfect.

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A female reader, yoginipirate United States +, writes (12 April 2008):

yoginipirate agony auntI like how everyone is being so sensitive, but if you really want to know. Don't tell her anything...just gain some SERIOUS oral skills. You will have to compensate if you really do have a tiny penis. When people say size doesn't matter---at both extremes, it does- logistically speaking. But if you can wow someone with other parts- things should be better for you both.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (12 April 2008):

Danielepew agony auntAh, and you don't seem to have a problem at all.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (12 April 2008):

Danielepew agony auntI don't know if a penis that's small when not aroused can be considered a syndrome. I understand that penises have different sizes when not aroused, and they stretch differently. I'm not sure if it was your doctor who spoke about that syndrome.

I think that females will agree with me if I say that you don't want to "impress" them with size, but with skill.

As to sex drive, it has no relationship whatsoever with the size of the penis.

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A female reader, Stayc63088 United States +, writes (12 April 2008):

Stayc63088 agony auntYes, 6 inches is just fine. Above average I do believe, or I've been told average is 5in. Not sure though. Any girl that wouldn't date you because 6 inches is too small for her... you shouldnt want her anyway. My last boyfriend was your size and made me quite happy. I would tell her when you begin talking about sex and get serious. Just my opinion though. I have yet to have a guy just tell me his penis size unless I've asked. You kind of find out when it happens. Also, would you not date a girl because of a certain boob size? Kind of the same thing, just what the person prefers. Good luck.

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