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writes:this may sound like a really retarded question but can you give a guy a hand job when he is soft or do you have to wait untill he is hard?basically, when im with my boyfriend and hes touching me, i want to touch him but i wouldnt know what to do if i did put my hand down there and he was soft? obviously if hes hard then i just start masturbating him but what if hes soft? do i leave it and wait untill hes hard or not? i dont know what to do with my hands sorry
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (8 June 2008):
 "natasia - just read cucumber and sock ... PERFECT ... where did you get that from???"
Years being single and having a warped sence of humor and reality.
and a well stocked fridge
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reader, I'mheretohelpyou  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Well, not that I know anything about that, but don't you have to make it hard when it's soft.
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reader, natasia +, writes (1 June 2008):
 just read cucumber and sock ... PERFECT ... where did you get that from???
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reader, natasia +, writes (1 June 2008):
It's most likely he'll be hard if you're in that sort of situation with him. However, should he be soft, once you take hold of him he will soon be hard anyhow!!
Just take hold of it. Squeeze it. Feel what it feels like. It's a pretty resilient thing - you can squeeze it really hard and it won't hurt. Just be careful to touch his balls gently. But as for his actual penis ... do whatever you feel like doing. I'm pretty certain he'd find anything nice that you did. Just start by stroking it, even. Put your hand round it and hold it. When you feel more confident, you can move your hand up and down, so you're sort of pulling it up and down. If your guy isn't circumcised, at some point during all this the head of his penis will come out - that is fun ; )
You just need to relax and play with him, basically. Maybe even not while he's doing anything to you ... get him to lie back, and then you can bond with what is in his trousers!! Don't be scared - just try things that come to mind, go with it, and remember that it is your friend and no doubt loves you a lot already!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): A cucumber with a sock! Haha Dr Vendetta. That's just a brilliant thought lol.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (1 June 2008):
Avoid doing it at weddings, church and funerals.
any time if fine hard soft, semi.
just think of it as..er.. i'd say a dick but that could be an bad example given the question.. Cucumber with a big sock on it.
the sock does conform to the shape but you can move the sock up and down. thats basicly the motion you're going for.
Note : Don't grab on to it like you're hanging off a cliff and thats the only thing you could grab on it.
be gental.. but firm.
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reader, Jen86 +, writes (1 June 2008):
rub hard or soft. He'll enjoy it. If he's soft he'll get hard. If he doesnt want you to he'll let u no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): if he's soft, you can playfully caress him around there, touch him suggestively around the pnis area, or caress his scrotum. guys tend to react quite well to those touches, it gets them up in no time, lol. Don't make movements as if you were giving a hand job, just play around.
Oh, while you're playing around that area, you can kiss his neck or kiss him. Works wonders when I do it to my boyf!
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reader, WastedLife +, writes (1 June 2008):
First thing, stop worrying about what to do. Ask him what feels good. A hand job is much better when well lubricated, and it is really nothing compared to oral, if you are OK with that. If you start touching and licking and kissing him, he is likely to get hard fairly quickly, and then you know what to do. When in doubt, ask him, and let him know what feels good to you too. Enjoy!
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reader, bobbay123 +, writes (1 June 2008):
Well if you're going for some foreplay, then maybe caress his penis and maybe then it'll become hard.I'm sure at the time he will be hard anyway! So it shouldnt be a problem unless he has trouble getting it up.
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