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writes:When i used to go for evening walks there's this older guy who used to stare at me, i too used to stare at him. I did ignore him sometimes, but for somedays he has started to ignore me. One day i did look at him, but he looked angrily at me and went away. What when wrong, what exactly happened, why was he then staring at me? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat did u mean by the way you dress, i didnot understand
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reader, shandygirl  + ♥, writes (11 July 2008):
 It sounds to me as though his "mature responsible adult side" took over.
A lot of older guys find younger women beautiful, part of mother nature, I guess. But if you are a LOT younger than him, then his morals kicked in... in his mind... for your own good. So therefore, his angry look was probrably to discourage you from wanting anything to go further. Kind of like " Go away little girl, you are too young for me." Also because... well... he could be married and with kids. A lot of guys who are married, don't wear a wedding band. My husband didn't.
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reader, cupidguy +, writes (11 July 2008):
It is hard to say, there could be many scenarios and causes. Maybe one day he was staring, nd you stared back. At this point, both of you may have perceive each others body language in different ways. The next time, you ignored him, these sends a mixed signal to him, and the next time you pass, he shows he is maybe angry, which causes a reaction and interpretation in you.
Now there is also the way you dress, the way you hold yourself, that his past experiences has triggered something in him to get a certain response.
It can be many things, and without talking to him, you may never know. For all we know, it could have been friendly, but then, it could have been a future dangerous situation. Who knows, but being you don't see him anymore (from your post, you take a different route now), it will always be a question mark in your thoughts.
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