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writes: Me and my ex broke up a year ago but every time I come back to town he gets with me. I ask him why always but he just blames it on his drunkness. He always says me being 17 and him being 19 makes me immature or something and supposedly there's this guy code where you can't date your exes again. I need to know how I can get him back, because deep down we all know he still likes me; he's just a confused individual. Is there any way to break this supposed guy code or something?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2006): Guy code? Made up. If he's confused, leave time to sort himself out and go out and have a good time. Meet new people, go out with your mates, date other guys.Don't hang around for this guy. He really isn't worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006): There is no "code for dating ex's!"
This is something he made up, as an excuse to not bet back together with you!
It's all BS!
Stop letting him get "with you" everytime you get back into town. He's just using you for his own selfish needs!
You broke up for a reason... so reflect back on that. If you really want to convince yourself that he still has a "thing" for you..Tell him when he can get his sh*t together, and want a full committment with you, then that will be the time for him to give you a call!!
Until that time comes...you best Move on!
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reader, happytochat  + ♥, writes (20 January 2006):
I'm sorry to say this, but this guy is just using you for sex! He is a slacker, and a typical 19 year old, he douens't ant to be in a relationship, he just wants sex, a no comitment type of thing. And hes using you for it. Don't let him do this. You obviosuly want so much more, so don't settle for just that iwt him. Im sorry but ti sounds to me like he deosnt want anything more, sure he may like you, but he doesnt want to be in a relationship. If he wanted to be, then he would be. YOu can't force him to be with you and i think you would be wasting ur time trying to. Go for a guy who is actually interested in a relationship and who wont use you! you could do soooo much better. i know you have feelings for you ex, but just because those feelings are there doesnt mean u have to act on them or make something of them.
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reader, mister-squid +, writes (20 January 2006):
 Guy Code? That's just stupid. To me, it actually seems like he doesn't want you back, calling you immature and making up even more immature stuff to keep away. Look for someone less of an ass.
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