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writes:i want to tell my teacher how much i love her but i dont know the best way to go about it .. i am female and so is she but that is not a problem as i know she is gay herself but i dont know which way is the best way?* letter * email* face-to-face? please i dont know what people like more!georgieXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): I had a teacher who I loved left and I still miss him and love him despite not being able to see him again =(
I wrote him a letter and gave it to him 2 days before he left and the next day he said he thought the letter was lovely and he was flattered and we both agreed nothing could happen because he was a teacher but even though I practically insisted that he should have acted awkward around me he said he didn't want to act awkward around me and agreed with what I said in the letter about wanting to act like we did before the letter and we got on perfectly well for the last 2 days. It was so worth it.
I'm not saying that every teacher will react the same way but I think a letter is a good way to tell someone you love them, so long as it's near the last time you see them in order to avoid any bad atmospheres.
I had this other teacher 2 years ago and I loved him and told him so. Well I asked him if I could speak to him and after about 10 minutes I finally decided to write it down right infront of him which was a total embarrassment and he told my form tutor but I still get on with him now. When I'm not holding a petty grudge against him, that is.
Good luck, and sorry I've rambled on for so long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Do it when you've left hun! I think either a letter or speaking to her face to face, is the best option! Emails can be hacked or if left unattended, another person could read it. I'm sure you want this to be confidential? :)
I gave a letter to my male teacher telling him how I felt. Unfortunately it ended badly, I cannot explain how devastated the consequences left me. That's why you must do it after you've left school (Please, please DON'T do it before!) I wish you the best of luck... Many people will probably tell you 'don't do it, it's wrong' blah blah blah! Sometimes a person has to follow their heart, to help them cope better with their situation. If you believe that telling her will do this, therefore satisfying you - then go ahead and do it - Follow your heart :)
I hope it all goes well! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Honey, it's best to keep your feelings to yourself, as this will only cause problems. It would be illegal for her to have a relationship with you, and would make things unnecessarily tense between the two of you! Judging by your age, you should be leaving school soon. Maybe then tell her if you want to. But right now, this is the last thing either of you needs. Good luck :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): There's not a millions ways to tell somebody that you love him/her but it's hard to do.
There's no "magic ways" that will guarantee an yes. Your best bet is to just be yourself. Instead of asking us what to do, why not asking "what would I do?".
If you don't do it, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
Choose a way, close your eyes, if you're afraid, and walk in that direction.
I believe in you.
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reader, A Cappella  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 If you really love your teacher, leave her alone. You will ruin her career. By law she can't have any kind of relationship with ANY of her students, no matter how she feels about you. At best she would lose her job (and never be able to teach again) and at worst she could end up in jail. You don't do that to someone you love.
Enjoy your crush. But don't act on it in any way.
If you still feel the same way after you've graduated, THEN it's time to let her know. She will then be allowed to do something about it.
Good luck hon.
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