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What's the best way to give a blow job? His penis is rather big...

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Question - (4 June 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

whats the best way to give a blow job, my guys penis is rather big and i try to get it as much in my mouth as possible, but sometimes i feel like im going to be sick! is there anyway i can improve that as he seems to really like it

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A female reader, vickysmr Antarctica +, writes (16 December 2010):

Ok, what do guys want when you give them oral?

One - The want love and emotion, believe it or not. Not in a way that you're too passionate, kissing their "friend" all slowly and sweatly (that's another story) - but emotion in a way that he can see the fire in your eyes, the incredible desire to get him to orgasm. That's what we want to see - that you REALLY want to be right there where you are and that YOU are completely comfortable with it, enjoying it and want more and more of it. That's the first thing men want to see.

Two - The second thing we want to see is a smile. A nice big smile further proving to us that you're not only enjoying it, but you are also having fun. You are connected on a deeper level.

Three - Of course, we want you to swallow. Try putting up a whole show. You'll see over time that it's not as much about techniques as much as it's about having the right attitude and personality during oral (and after that too of course).

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

Well sweetheart I have the same wonderful problem. I am a woman who never wants to admitt defeat. So here is some advice first of all get yourself some gag cream this product numbs the back of the throat that will stop the gagging sensation. Another trick is to lay on your back head danggling off the bed, table, chair whatever you use this makes your throat longer. Also for all the ladies out there who don't swallow you are not completing the job!!!! waste not a drop suck on sisters suck on.

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A female reader, countrygirlWV United States +, writes (16 June 2008):

countrygirlWV agony auntI know how u feel my bf is huge to but I just us my tung a lot right at the tip and use my hand sometimes I can make him really excited when I give him a lil nibble to make it kinky not to hard just enough to make it hot. Good Luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008):

Umm, there is something wrong here.

She's 16-17 years old. Run away girl. Get some help.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

Yeah. Just suck on the head and stroke the shaft with your hand. Like a handjob.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

If you can't take it all, then use your hand to carress the base. You don't have to try to act like a porn queen and try the deep throat. Just putting your mouth around the top should be enough to excite him and make him come. It should be enjoyable for you too, so don't swallow of more than you can chew. (LOL)

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A male reader, Samhamss United States +, writes (5 June 2008):

well, there is the option of only taking the tip and sucking very hard on that while you spit on the shaft and rub it with your hand. I know this turns me on

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