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writes:Hi Guys i wrote in a few days ago, saying that my ex confinded in me that his having a mental break, and his been accussing his currant GF of cheating on him, and that she looks abit like a ex from 5yrs ago, that treated him bad, but he still has some feelings for the ex off 5yrs ago even though he wouldn't go out with her again, and that he feels useless insure and no confidence in himself.And asking me what he should do, do i think he should be in the relationship with the current GF.Anyway me and my ex were togeter for a year and a half have a 8month old baby and been split up 4months now, and his been with his current GF for about 3-4months now.I gave him some advice, but i told him he should speak to his good friend Pat off 17yrs.In the end he did, My ex's friend called me today and told me, that my Ex's current girlfriend did something on Satuarday night, which has made him feel inscure. (she didn't say what)Pat also said my ex didn't bring up the fact he thinks his having a mental break-down, or the fact that he has feelings for the ex from 5yrs ago. (Pat and my ex are very close, like brothers and sisters)So i don't understand why he told me all that but left some parts out from his best friend, and left the part out that his current girlfriend did something to make him feel this way TO ME....WHATS GOING ON?My ex was askling me yesterday if i think he should finish with his girlfriend if is having thoughts about another ex....but none off this was mentioned to Pat....can anyone shead any light on this.Pat also said to me, beacuse you have been there for M we would make a good couple and its a shame we are not together, then pat went on to say WELL YOU NEVER KNOW....do you think MY EX HAS SAID ANYTHING TO PAT ABOUT US GETTING BACK TOGETHER, or do you think Pat said that to see if i still love my ex? He also said to me the other day that he still cares about me...Help please
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reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (5 September 2007):
 HiWhy would you want to get back with an ex that obviously still held a torch for the ex before you, while you was having his baby? Didnt he ever mention this ex from 5 yrs ago while you was with him?That would rile me personally.And you split 4 months ago and he jumped straight in with someone else? I wouldnt be even talking to him about anything apart from your baby.He doesnt sound a safe bet to me.This Pat woman possibly wants him off her back?Have some self respect and tell him you dont want to be hearing about his screwed up head about this girl n that. Its very insensitive of him. He obviously needs lots of attention and the current squeeze isnt giving him enough of it.Good luck.C xxxxx
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