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writes:Hmm, well basically, my boyfriend of just over a year has been acting funny lately. He's always on the computer, and closes MSN conversations when I go over to talk to him. Curious as to his odd behaviour, one day I decided to take a look at one of his convo's whilst he was downstairs, and he'd said to a friend of his that we had £3, 000 in the bank, when we have nothing at the moment. So a couple of days later, I went over to him and decided to tell a little lie myself. This is how it went;"A friend of yours emailed me and asked if we have £3, 000 in the bank. I can't remember his MSN name, but he said you'd told him."To which he replied with;"Oh, I know what that is, he told me he had alot of money, when I know he doesn't, so I told a lie as well, to see if he would buy it.", which is obviously a lie as the boy had said nothing at all about money until my boyfriend opened his big mouth. I didn't say anything, but since then I've noticed him lying alot, mainly to girls. At one point he told a girl that he was just getting ready to go and sing for a live band, and that he was really nervous. The conversation continued on and she started fawning over him, telling him he was great, gorgeous, etc.Alot of his friends on Myspace/Facebook and MSN are mainly pretty girls too, and whenever I cuddle up to him and he's talking to one of them, he quickly turns the computer off, and says he's either too tired to stay on the computer and goes to bed, or he's ill and pops off to the loo.What the hell is going on?I've also noticed that he's always "in the mood" when he comes off of the computer.Now I'm not stupid. I can clearly see that something is up, but I don't want to just assume and start screaming and bawling at him, so I was wondering if anyone knows another possible reason for his actions?Thank you, L.
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reader, Cavin  +, writes (7 February 2009):
and he never "gets in the mood" anymore... he says it has nothing to with me but... well.. I*m not that sure...
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reader, Cavin +, writes (7 February 2009):
I know how you must feel, my boyfriend is behaving in the same suspicious manner :( I wish I could give you good advice, but I dont know what to do, I have tried to confront him with it but then he just says he loves me, it's just so hard to believe ...
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reader, VampyricHybrid  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 I'd say he's talking to other girls, flirting. Just confront him, don't be hateful or rude, just tell him that you want the truth. =)
-Good Luck.
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reader, Djmclucas113 +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Talk to him about it confront him and see what he says if he gives another bs reason don't buy and rethink ur relationship
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reader, Rylee210 +, writes (6 February 2009):
 I agree with The Old Man! There isn't that much to figure out, there may be some strange coincidence, but it sounds like he is trying to score or something! Don't judge him right off the bat, but don't believe him if he lies!
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (6 February 2009):
 As the old saying goes,
Sometimes we know the answer to our own question, but we just have to hear someone say it!
I think you have things figured out JUST FINE!!!
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