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What would be your summation of what makes a guy so sexy? Is that impossible to define? Or could you say it is just a feeling you get inside?

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Question - (23 October 2016) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2016)
A male Canada age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Is there such a thing as a guy who you've just met or seen, who doesn't look like some kind of a model, and who makes you feel, "This guy is SEX! (gaaah, droool)...?

What would be your description of what makes him so sexy, or is it impossible to say because it's just a feeling you get when you're around him?

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A female reader, followtheblackrabbit Cayman Islands + , writes (26 October 2016):

followtheblackrabbit agony auntHaha it's different for everybody! I remember having this "Gah! This man is SEX" moment when I met my current boyfriend. My friends don't find "hot" or "handsome" but he was hilarious and SO smart. On our first date he flashed those green eyes at me and kissed my hand...I was hooked lol He was confident but such a gentleman that I felt safe but very intrigued.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2016):

A confident, intelligent and kind guy with a good sense of humor always perks me up and piques my interest.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom + , writes (23 October 2016):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntI'm not a sexual person and I don't find stereotypically "perfect" models attractive, so I wasn't sure I'd ever want intimacy, let alone find anyone sexy. That changed when I got to know my boyfriend. I do find him very handsome, but the sexiness comes from how in love with his personality I am.

He's caring, thoughtful, genuine, doesn't expect anything from me that I'm not sure about, etc. He's shy too, so it's not a confidence thing for me. I think part of my love and attraction to him comes from the fact that he feels self-conscious, as I do about myself too, so it puts me at ease with him because we're both at the same place, relating to each other on a deep level.

Some people can look at a bum/figure/eyes/etc. and instantly develop lust, but I'm not like that and the lust only developed after I started to fall for who he is.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2016):

Confidence is what turns anyone on, really confident people attract the most suitors, even if it's a complete facade, publicly keeps their cards close to their chest, is complimentary and never puts others down no matter how horrible they are, but Is privately very sharing and empathetic, can make you laugh and see the bright side of life! The sexiest man I ever saw, discreetly mocked a third party in order to cheer up a friend who had been vexed by them.

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A female reader, oliviaclairex United Kingdom +, writes (23 October 2016):

oliviaclairex agony auntFunny always does it for me! And just someone who's a little different, has something really interesting to say! I also personally love when a guy is really passionate about something... it could be anything. Football, playing music... anything, just seeing them really involved and passionate about something :)

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