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diane30561
writes:I have posted a few times about my relationship. But now the end has come. He broke up with me a month ago stating that he loved me so much and that he didn't see himself with anyone else but that he was stupid and didn't know responsiblity and priority, that he needed help. I saw him on Friday for a while and he cried telling me he was sorry he loved me and then asked if I would marry him and have his children... I told him no, that he takes care of himself and I needed to take care of myself. (I already have a child from a past marriage) He said he understood. He held me, cried like a baby and then I had to go.So that night he calls me but while talking, his phone dies. The next day both of our phones where shut off due to no payment so I text his brother to tell him that he could reach me at my mom's phone. He never called. I managed by luck to get into his Voicemail and listen to his ex telling him that her roomates were gone for the weekend, to call her when he was done... I jumped in the car went to his house where he said he had been talking to her but never went to her house... FINENext day he never called... went to his Voicemail again to listen to this girl saying that she hopes he made it home safely "THIS MORNING" (Can you feel my stomach turning?) so I called his house he said I need to call you later, I told him there was no need, that I was done with this. He said OK and we hung up.I know congrats to me!!! though painful I know in a few weeks I will be fine and in a few months I will laugh and in a few years I will wonder what I saw in him.basically my question is.. WTF??? What did he want from me? Anything to make me feel better!!
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reader, diane30561 +, writes (11 March 2008):
diane30561 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses.Yesterday was easier than the day before and im sure today will be even better.Thanks again!
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reader, Basschick  + ♥, writes (10 March 2008):
 What an idiot. You're better off without him. Who knows what he wanted. Probably just sex, but he obviously can get that anywhere, anytime, with anyone. He's scum.
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reader, welshblood  +, writes (10 March 2008):
sounds to me like he was after a bit off attention from 2 women. he thinks he could be with you both because you both make a fuss of him by the sound of it.and the possibility of seeing 2 girls at once then making a choice of which one he wants to be with. or it could also be he wanted to be with you for just the sex. you could be alot sexier than his ex. or he could be using you both for sex telling you both that he still loves you and theres nobody else.maybe it might be an idea to speak to his ex and tell her what he has been saying to you maybee you will find she has been told the same. seams like this guy is a jerk and your better off with out him you can find sombody out there that will treat you right seams like you have a big heart and alot of love to give. let me know if you speak to the ex.
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reader, Arcada +, writes (10 March 2008):
Talk about a head f***!!!!You are well out of that one! I think when a person discovers how pathetic their ex is, its makes is so much easier to get over. He has serious issues and you are better than that. In this case actions speak louder than words!Stay strong if he tries to worm his way back in again. He is full of s***!!
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