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writes:Ok questions for men....ladies are also welcome.I would like an honest opinion. Apart from woman's personality and brains..... how much do men weigh on a woman's figure and looks. If you guys would ever fancy anyone whether your wives,girlfriends, colleagues, friends, celebs etc, which one would you prefer slim curvy, average curvy, heavy curvy or size doesn't matter. Which one would you fancy??? Would like honest opinions.....please mind,this question is just for fun (take it as a survey). It is not arising out of any particular situation. Reply to this Question |
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reader, martini  +, writes (7 June 2006):
 And may I add, "You're welcome Smeedle'... 8]
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (6 June 2006):
 Oh dear, I have tried not to reply but I just cannot go to my bed without a comment or three, and no Im not a bloke!!
Martini and Dr Pete and usual you are just so ammusing, what an insight you have given me into men! Martini I now know were I have been going wrong all these years (42 of them) I shall go out to the "perfect woman shop" and have myself a re-build due a service anyhow.
Oh dear, want to say more but well cannot stop laughing, keep entertaining me you guys.!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys thanks for all your responses,
This question was purely based on the first initial physical attraction (again just for fun) and not the personality traits .....so i guess it is targeted more for men. I want to hear this from as many men possible as we are doing a survey on this soon.
It was funny to get the women's traits into percentages like that from Martini. I never thought men think like that as well. I wonder if you are always that funny.
But hey guys thanks for the honest opinions.
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reader, martini +, writes (5 June 2006):
Initial Attraction:
Physique (body type, shape, size, features): 25% / Facial (shape, size, features): 20% / Personality (reaction, action, initiation, wit): 35% / Intelligence (substance, depth, connection): 20%
Long term attraction, it's more like this:
Physique (body type, shape, size, features): 20% / Facial (shape, size, features): 10% / Personality (reaction, action, initiation, wit): 40% / Intelligence (substance, depth, connection): 30%
You can call me 'shallow', but remember these are generalizations, and you can't look at the individual aspects. You have to look at how they relate to each other.
Before my recent ex, I love breasts, baseball size breasts - so long as I can hold them in my hands. During and after my ex, I love asses. I love large round asses, not those freakish Amazon ones, but you know what I mean. WOW!
Right. I'll shut up now.
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reader, bonym +, writes (5 June 2006):
 My dear I know you specifically want a mans opinion but I have answered soooooo many questions like this its unreal. Everyone is different, some men like curvy girls, some men like thinner girls, some men like blondes, some like brunettes, some like blue eyes some like brown eyes. It all varies. Not ALL gentlemen prefer blondes even though Ms Monroe suggested it. Some men like tall girls, others like petite girls. Each man is different, as the phrase says, each to their own. xXx
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reader, Bagachips +, writes (5 June 2006):
I feel the prettiest when I have worked hard on something. I agree with jadzia and that men seem more attracted (on the whole) to someone with energy and vavoom. Whatever the case, figures are important. One issue on breasts though. There are two different types of guys... The momma boys who aren't comfortable with their own sexuality need to have girls with huge breasts... Then there are the other guys, who are comfortable with their sexuality, who it isn't really the issue of how big/small they are but the girl just looks sexy. I suppose this could be extended to any physical trait whether it be breasts, legs, or butts, on how the man is comfortable with his own sexuality.
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reader, Dr Pete + ♥, writes (5 June 2006):
 Average curvy for me. Slim girls can sometimes be nicer to look at, but, I find, slimmer girls tend to have more complexes about their looks than girls of average/healthy appearance.
I would say size and looks do matter a lot, I wouldn't even consider going out with a really intelligent girl with a brilliant personality if she wasn't sexually appealing to me.
Just my opinion! ;)
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (5 June 2006):
 In my experience, some men have told me a particular part of my body really attracted them. Other men have found a bit of personality that they like. Other have gone after me because I was as they said it "hot". I am a mum with a bunch of kids and one great husband and it still happens.
What I have noticed through my years, is that when I feel good about myself I have guys hit on me, when I am having a bad day I don't.
So men might say they are breast men, or leg men, or butt men, but what they really are looking for, is a woman with a great self-esteem.
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