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writes:I have been hanging out with this guy for 2 years. We are best friends. We have had sex a couple of times. We have had oral sex and foreplay quite often. I'm feel I am falling in love with him. I think about him constantly, I'm in a bad mood if I don't see him, and starting to feel jealous. We talk to each other at least twice a day and see each other twice a day. I can't sleep at night without dreaming about him. Is there anything I could look for to find out how he might feel without directly asking him. Some people say that their pupil will be dilated when your around if they like you. Any help would be appreciated.
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reader, martini  +, writes (1 December 2006):
 Mr. Anon said: "Forget the pupil dialion- what if he goes out in the sun?"
And I respond: Awesome! 8D
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006):
Point of order: if have to go on line to ask "how do I know if the guys I am blowing likes me" there is something wrong with your dating strageties.
Forget the pupil dialion- what if he goes out in the sun? Ask him to do a favor for you that is inconvienient for him. Maybe repaint your living room some afternoon when he had something else planned. Or help you move some heavy furniture or haul junk to the dump for you.
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reader, martini +, writes (30 November 2006):
Umm, no. I mean, the pupil dilating and stuff. If I was interested in a female, the only way she will know is through some of the actions I may present to her on an ongoing basis. Possibly smiling to her, and being around her more.
Thing is, he is supposedly your best friend, and you two have been having sexual activities together. I think that is already a good sign that he probably likes you, but as far as "best friends" goes, a lot of people mistake those two words as being "good friends".
IMO, "best friends" is what you have at the moment, whom you feel connects with you the best, but this doesn't necessarily mean s/he is a "good friend". This is apparent in many other threads here at DearCupid.
I think if you really want see how he feels about you, you should ask him if you two can take it further, or test the waters, go out with him more, hang out, do other stuff, continue to talk to each other - you don't have to verbally say that you're dating. You just gotta do it, and see if does turn out to be official.
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