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writes: There is a new guy at my job and at first I thought he was nice, but then he spent about 30 minutes trying to convince me that my 3 year relationship is a lie and that it'll end anyway. He has cheated before and is a hardcore clubbing junkie. He's only 2 years older than me. He was shocked when I told him that, at 20, I have never been out clubbing or drinking. He gave me a lot of shit for it and made me feel completely abnormal. He ended our conversation with "oh I was gonna ask you to hang out but you probably just sit home all night watching family guy." Is there truly anything wrong with not being a party person? Friends have asked me to go partying with them but I know it involves playing drinking games and smoking weed. That's all they do. I study or work out or hang out with my long term boyfriend. What would be the perfect phrase to tell someone like this guy next time?
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (26 August 2012):
 I would ignore that guy. Honestly I think he was hoping you could be a booty call. That is why he spend 30 minutes trying to convince you that your relationship is bogus, he OBVIOUSLY doesn't really know you.. or your BF.
Ignore him.
If you aren't into going out clubbing there is nothing wrong in that.
The perfect phrase?
You live your life, I live mine and honestly, I'm quite happy with my life as it is.
( or the less polite, why don't you just go play chicken on the freeway?)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2012): He's an idiot. I can't think of a snappy comeback, but the best revenge is the future; you'll likely be far more accomplished and secure with your life and he'll still be picking his ass pretending he's a teenager.
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