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What should I do when I am having sex without a condom on?

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Question - (25 April 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i'm a virgin , and i have been wondering what to do when im having sex without a condom and im about to cum, do i cum inside her or tell her im about to cum or what? HELP!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

WEAR A CONDOM!!

am hoping all this repetition will make you see how important it is to WEAR A CONDOM!!

do you really want to be taking such huge risks when all you have to do is WEAR A CONDOM!!

it takes a matter of seconds to put on and saves you gettin messy sheets an a messy life if you catch anything or end up getting her pregnant.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2010):

Just yell out "CHLAMYDIA!!!!" since you probably both have it anyway.

Oh and while you're hear read all the questions from really great women who are going to dump guys because they have a kid and ex girlfriend in the frame.

Or you could just man up and wear a condom and stop being such an idiot.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2010):

k_c100 agony auntI'm going to echo the other answers you have received - DO NOT HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM! Unless you want to be a dad and catch an STD then do not do it!!!

There is no reason to ever have sex without a condom unless:

1. You are trying for a baby (which I hope as a 17 year old virgin you are not!)

2. You have both been tested for STD's by a doctor and the girl is using a form of birth control like the pill.

If you are planning on having sex for the first time then have a chat with your girlfriend about it - ask her if she takes the pill, talk about how you are going to do this safely and without any accidents.

Using the pull out method is not a "method" of contraception - there is such a thing called "pre-cum" which leaks out of your penis before you cum. This contains sperm and can actually get the girl pregnant. So you need to be using birth control and/or condoms to prevent these sperm in the pre-cum getting the girl pregnant. So even if you have pulled out before you have cum, there will still be sperm inside her and a good chance she will be pregnant.

I suggest you get some condoms and always keep them in your wallet - that way if you do get into a situation you always have one to hand. It stops pregnancy regardless of whether the girl is on the pill or not, plus is stops you catching any STD's from the girl you are sleeping with. There are many STD's that are easy to catch, some have no symptoms so you dont even know you have one like Chlamydia! Or some can be fatal like HIV/AIDS, plus there are some that are incurable like Hepatitis B & genital herpes.

I'm sure you dont want to catch a disease or become a dad at your age so just use a condom and you will not have to worry!

I hope this helps and good luck!

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (25 April 2010):

janniepeg agony auntYou get prepared to pay child support for 18 years, then you have 9 months not having to worry whether to cum inside, outside, or in her mouth.

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A female reader, rambini United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2010):

rambini agony auntSimple answer - DO NOT have sex without a condom. it is irresponsible and unnecessary. having sex without condom leaves you open to getting diseases, some of which are INCURABLE. it also has a high risk that you will get her pregnant, so you will also be stuck with baby. have respect for yourself, and have respect for her. USE A CONDOM!!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2010):

Keep that condom on! Like all men, you'll have pre-cum, which leaks out whilst you're turned on. This contains sperm, so she can still get pregnant if she's not on the pill.

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